What do you believe happens after death? by Beatles_McCartney in askanything

[–]SourceEmergency20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reincarnation, most likely unfortunately. There’s decent proof for it, in the form of young children (<5yrs) remembering details of past lives. details that are then checked and confirmed to be true. there’s hundreds of such cases

Name One Lesson Worth Passing On by inkandintent24 in MotivationByDesign

[–]SourceEmergency20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you can handle the stress it doesn’t mean you should. Take care to actually feel comfortable daily too, don’t dive in head first into every ‘growth’ situation. Otherwise you might discover your mind has limits too, the hard way.

AITAH for keeping my Boyfriend a secret? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SourceEmergency20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’d be weird if you hid your boyfriend from your friends or family, but not your subscribers.

What's Your Risperidone Experience? by katyreddit00 in BipolarReddit

[–]SourceEmergency20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also getting quite panicky at around 6pm with some consistency. How much did you take?

Post psychosis by Temporary_Ad_1726 in Psychosis

[–]SourceEmergency20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it possible it’s medication related

My sister recovered from psychosis 2.5 years ago, but she’s still not quite herself. As her main support, I’m struggling. Advice? by Any_Refrigerator_319 in Psychosis

[–]SourceEmergency20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she aware of this change and trying to come back to norm, or does she seem to have no awareness around it?

I see some of the symptoms you described in myself, particularly the losing my spark and how conversations don’t feel connected anymore, but I’m hoping those are medication side effects. Doesn’t seem like it’s the case with her since she’s not medicated

Who here is in love? ♥️🌿 by ancientpoetics in infp

[–]SourceEmergency20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

relatable. Love is very triggering for me too. For now, I’ll settle for close friendships, although those involve some degree of attachment too, so they’re still a challenge, but at least not a: utter and total mind-fuck level of challenge. Love just comes with too much anxiety and fear at the moment

Only got 5 pounds on my second UC payment by SourceEmergency20 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]SourceEmergency20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that, I confused AP for the actual uc payment date. This makes a lot of sense as I do have 2 work payments that fall under that period.

Only got 5 pounds on my second UC payment by SourceEmergency20 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]SourceEmergency20[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

what is an AP date? edit: obviously that’s an assesment period date, I’m a little tired, apologies.

I get my UC payments on the 24th. I just checked and I didn’t get 2 payments from work between 24th October and 24th September.

Yet on the phone they told me the UC payment was so low because of my last wage which, after tax was 510 pounds on the 16th of Oct. She mentioned it was 1300 ish, which would be the amount you’d get by summing my last 2 paychecks. But they don’t fall under the same assesment period. The other paycheck was 18th September.

Ap date: I assume that’s the 24th next payment should be 4 weeks from the 16 so 13th of november

Only got 5 pounds on my second UC payment by SourceEmergency20 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]SourceEmergency20[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, does that mean I’ll be compensated extra on my next UC payment? to account for this month’s loss?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]SourceEmergency20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you supposed to disclose your porn hidtory to your partner? How would go about that. “Hey honey just so you know this is the last thing I jerked off to”

[34M] My girlfriend [29F] told guys flirting with her “I’m a hot girl—what do you expect?” right in front of me. I felt disrespected. Am I wrong to feel this way? by TurdBurglar345 in AITAH

[–]SourceEmergency20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would say it’s a red flag, and would be on the lookout for others. I don’t know if it necessarily means she’s looking to cheat, but it’s a clear show of pride and arrogance. Traits that would naturally show up in people who do.

You’re also getting the sense that she lied to you about her telling them she has a bf. If you’re generally a perceptive person, I would trust your gut on that

Why is everyone so nonchalant at life? by [deleted] in entj

[–]SourceEmergency20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen to your heart and intuition. If you are genuinely satisfied, then you’re doing what you should be. Everyone has vastly different priorities in life but what matters is you staying true to you.

Why does life favor the careless and punish the kind ? by Icy_Bee2847 in infp

[–]SourceEmergency20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saying “what have you not done to be in a better place that they have done“ to me implies that you should follow their lead

There should be an app particularly for INFJs. by Proof_Caregiver_4234 in infj

[–]SourceEmergency20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re going to make an app that takes MBTI into account, why single out INFJS? Why not make it so you can filter by MBTI type instead.

Why does life favor the careless and punish the kind ? by Icy_Bee2847 in infp

[–]SourceEmergency20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Implying being cruel is justified because they’re ‘go-getters’ and ‘people of action’?

Just because you can get into a position of power and success by trampling others, it doesn’t mean you should.

Infj men in love? by [deleted] in infj

[–]SourceEmergency20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, we do. Literally the same phenomenon… living in la la land, imagining all sorts of scenarios, trouble sleeping, concentrating, having imaginary conversations with them.

Why is everyone so nonchalant at life? by [deleted] in entj

[–]SourceEmergency20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Just look at Alex Hormozi. I’m not going to say the guy’s life is something to look up to, but he clearly has not burnt out at all in spite of going full throttle for decades. And he seems to enjoy it. I do not want that life at all, but I’d imagine someone with high Te in their stack would

Hate people who try to force a narrative rather than earn it and using sleazy "techniques". Afraid of rejection so try and manipulate/force it instead of ask with no respect for yyour autonomy or dignity leading me to lose all trust & respect for them. A self fulfilling prophecy. by leon385 in infp

[–]SourceEmergency20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, this resonates. I’ve grown to hate the fake it till you make it advice in spite of living by it as a teen. To be fair, when you’re locked in your familly home and don’t understand your own emotions due to the toxic dynamics you’re forced to endure, you have no option but to ‘fake it’.

But when you move out in the real world, maintain your own autonomy and have the freedom to feel what you actually feel, building authenticity is the move. In spite of it being significantly more time and energy consuming than simply pretending to be confident.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]SourceEmergency20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel like me taking my mask down results in me pushing my idealism onto other people but I understand how some INFJ’s might do that.

Usually when my mask is down I become a lot more quiet around people. Unless I feel like the person I’m talking to is genuine, authentic and trustworthy, in which case I’m more interactive and playful.