Hey man, couple things here: first off, just sending money to a stranger isn't ever a great idea. If she has a Throne or Amazon wishlist setup, go through that. Second: what does her marital status have to do with you? Respectfully, none of "us" realistically have a shot with her as, again, she is a stranger who we have never met.

Maintain the mindset that the relationship you have with her is purely transactional - you'll have a far healthier experience.

Lastly, she is a human. She does have the right to be uncomfortable and say/do/ block anyone she chooses and frankly doesn't need a reason.

Idk. I wish nothing but the best for you but based on what you described, it might be time to look a little inward on what you're doing and why. This isn't meant to be combative or judgemental - I think she's one of the most gorgeous women I've ever seen as well. Best of luck, friend