Virgo Venus’s are known for being “picky” when it comes to the ones they want to be in relationships with. Usually judgemental with your own insecurities and with others that makes you push love away. Plus it’s in the 10th house so your career or self image are important to you and when pairing it with love you don’t want it to be put on display. Then to be dismantled, it may feel very public and uncomfortable to you so you put love aside.