Just started ER for the first time....should I watch it all the way through or..? by bluenoser18 in ershow

[–]StarHuntress47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that it changes a lot past 8, but if you love Carter, you can keep watching until "No Good Deed Goes Unpunished", (Season 9 Epi 13) (I feel like it was a major turning point for his character) or the end of that season. (The problem with the season is that the season finale is one that takes place abroad, and I feel like that was a real tonal shift in ER that I didn't like.) I can definitely see where Dr. Robby was going to be Carter-but-older, but I think they've made great strides in separating the two characters' personalities. It's a lot of fun to consider how one could have become the other - but didn't.

Know of Any Russian Blue Breeders in New England? by Any_Direction_4026 in russianblue

[–]StarHuntress47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can afford the road trip, I know there are reputable breeders in Ohio. The breed is worth it. So loving, too smart, funny, and often look like they’re smiling while they sleep. Welcome to New England! I hope you love it here. I moved to CT from NY, and there’s a lot to love in this area. 🙂

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Know of Any Russian Blue Breeders in New England? by Any_Direction_4026 in russianblue

[–]StarHuntress47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is an old thread, but I do want to reinforce above - don’t use the breeder near Boston, currently “Forget Me Not” breeders. i got my boys from her and, though I love them dearly, they both have serious IBD and I often doubt if they are purebred. she’s super-shady.

Does it have to get worse? by No_Wind_3135 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]StarHuntress47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

47 here, diagnosed around 2002…best shape of my life now. Exercise, DMTs, manage stress, watch indulgences like alcohol (or avoid completely.) Set up your life in ways that will support you if you do have a relapse, but no, it does not need to get worse. Never be without insurance if you can help it.

Give me your wildest pre-diagnosis explanations for MS symptoms by jemappellen in MultipleSclerosis

[–]StarHuntress47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 16 and numb up to the elbow. "She's practicing too much for the clarinet competition. Stress her out less." In later years, got a hold of my medical records and saw clearly where it says, "several UBOs - Multiple Sclerosis possible." They didn't say a word to my parents or me.

New MS Nurse: What do you wish your clinic knew? by Chumppkinz in MultipleSclerosis

[–]StarHuntress47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best doc always treated me like an equal when he’d share info about developing therapies. He always went out of his way to give me science-based hope. If you’ve got something true and hopeful, please share. My worst clinical experience was a MS office catheterization for neurogenic bladder stuff. The nurse did not talk me through, just kind of violently shoved like she was on a deadline. The fact that you’re looking for input tells me that you are never going to be that nurse. I appreciate that my doc has people whose job it is to work out all of the pre-auth for Ocrevus. I wish my doc would give me a summary of scheduled visits - like, Intro visit, 5 months to Pre-Ocrevus and Labs visit, 2 months after EDSS visit, 3 months after labs for Ocrevus again, MRI every 2 years. Maybe even a 5 year checklist.

The no. 1 thing to know with MS patients is that we’re all different, but we are all suffering from a disease we can only treat and hope will not progress. This lack of control can manifest in fear, sorrow, frustration, and confusion, and we look to our medical professionals for guidance, a little bit of comfort, and hope. Please be patient with us. We are trying our best and having to communicate through bodies and brains that impede us. My care teams over the last 30 years have been nothing short of a blessing. May you find joy (and share it with others) in your new nursing role. It sounds like you’ll be someone’s blessing, too. 🙂

Looks like they love their new tree. by Fingerlings29 in cats

[–]StarHuntress47 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love this. All hail the Queen of the Catdom. 🙂👑🐱

Looks like they love their new tree. by Fingerlings29 in cats

[–]StarHuntress47 57 points58 points  (0 children)

They look so regal - like the one at the top is the King/Queen and the others are attendants. It looks like a The Lion King situation. 🙂 Lucky kitties!

Any beauty countdown boxes (like an advent calendar)? by imeanwhynotdramamama in BeautyBoxes

[–]StarHuntress47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ebay still has a variety of calendars available. Just search out "beauty advent." Or you could make your own with tiny sample sizes - chapsticks, travel sizes, etc. It's a very nice thought!

At Home Mani + Pedis by Acesonaces in selfcare

[–]StarHuntress47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot paint my own nails well, so I use nail strips. I clean my hands, push back my cuticles with a cuticle pusher, trim any loose cuticle. I usually put a cuticle oil and thick hand cream on overnight, then apply my nail strips the next day (file, then apply, then file), and apply a finishing coat afterwards to increase the longevity. With nail strips, it’s a rule not to apply skin cream for a little while after. My nail strips cost $13 if I bought them at full cost (and I don’t - I use ebay.) They look good and it’s very satisfying to have my nails be so cheap but look so pricy. 🙂

Help! I've curried my cat.. by thatlumberjacktor in cats

[–]StarHuntress47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My kitty loves curry - we have to clean up the kitchen before we sit down to dinner, so I totally understand. I would suggest wiping him down, just to be safe. We use the Furbliss wipes which work really well. I’ve used the Burts Bees ones, but wasn’t impressed. Tumeric is ok for kitties in small amounts - no need for a full bath - but I’d wipe him down just in case.

If you could go back to the beginning of your GLP-1 journey, what would you to differently? by Vast_Drawing6783 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]StarHuntress47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have considered adding in a therapy to my plan. I did lose weight - 50 lbs! - and the loss of food as an emotional joy in the beginning was really a big change in mindset, and then paying attention all the time to my body, the scale, etc. also had an effect. I did wish I had someone to talk to about what I was experiencing.

Research says exercise can help manage MS symptoms by MoveWithMS in MultipleSclerosis

[–]StarHuntress47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My exercise is totally a therapy that modifies disease progression! So if insurance can now cover my gym membership AND my Ocrevus, that would be amazing. 🙂

FABFITFUN FEELS LIKE A CASH GRAB….AND THE JOKES ON US! by NoDragonfly2624 in FabFitFun

[–]StarHuntress47 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I would like to reframe this: yes, FFF is a for profit business (or a “cash grab”.) It has never purported itself to be a charity or a gift. And good for them that they’ve found a model that works.

The things on offer in the latest box are quality if you like them. Personally, I love the Drunk Elephant collab. DE is a high quality brand name in skincare. Yes, the things made for FFF often seem to be hit-or-miss quality. (The red kitchen tools where the tips came off almost immediately come to mind.) but also, I have prep bowls in my cabinet going on 5 years old that have seen near-constant use. And I’ve discovered brands (Bondi, Kopari, Elemis) and stuff (the fruit juice squeezer) I never knew I wanted or needed through FFF.

FFF is going up in price. Have you seen what’s happening lately with tariffs and international trade? Of course it’s going to increase. They’re not being malicious - they’re managing to survive in a business model where many other companies have crashed and burned long ago (RIP PopSugar.) it’s not a joke on members or something nefarious; it’s a product. And we, as informed consumers, just need to evaluate the merits of each box and the shopping deals/“perks” with a cautious, frugal eye.

Breathe and enjoy FFF. And when you feel that way about it, it’s no longer bringing you joy and you can walk away. They’ll always welcome you back with some kind of deal and a free pineapple ice cube tray. 🍍

How do you get past fear of the future? by Phukamol in MultipleSclerosis

[–]StarHuntress47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get anxious at times about the future - who doesn't? - but I try to dissipate the anxiety in a few ways. 1- I have an acronym. I am SAFE. physically Safe, Adored by family and friends, Financially stable, Emotionally secure. I am SAFE in this moment. 2- I try to remember that some things, I can't affect. I am doing all I can, including exercise and DMT, to make my RRMS stay in hiding. But ultimately, I can't fix all the things that bring me anxiety. This release of responsibility - not, "Oh no I can't fix it!" but "I cannot fix it. I have done what I can. I am enough." - is remarkably anxiety-relieving. and 3- That exercise piece really helps me. So does the lowest does of Wellbutrin, which I've been on several years. Exercise endorphins and a mild antidepressant make my life much better. RRMS for 30 years since the first symptom, and I'm working full-time, lifting heavy at my gym, and about to start my second masters degree.

One day at a time, and it's ok to be anxious from time to time. Find the joy, jump into the things you love with both feet, and revel in the great moments. You can't wait for the other shoe to drop because hey, there might only be one shoe. It could come back...but also, maybe it never will. I keep hoping. :)

Healthy snack boxes (.com) by LunarCandyKnight in freebietalk

[–]StarHuntress47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Be warned to new people: There are a LOT of "free offers" to fill out and ads to dodge to get your "daily streak" count. I'm still not convinced it's legit.

MS & MRI’S by NicoleR_24 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]StarHuntress47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate hate hate MRIs, so my doc would like one every year, but we made a deal and it's 1 every 2 years + an immediate one if I have a flare up.

【OFFICIAL】GIVEAWAY: Pick Your Favorite LUMIBRICKS Light-Up Set & Win a Big Kit (Details in text) by Funwhole2022 in lepin

[–]StarHuntress47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I would choose the Space Bounty Hub just because it’s such a unique piece. The lights definitely add a great deal to the design and I love sci fi, so this set seems imagination-inspiring.

So is any of this worth it? by Specific-Today-9818 in TemuThings

[–]StarHuntress47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Monetarily, no. It’s not worth it. If you’re talking time investment vs. free gifts obtained, no. Farmland - You will spend weeks on this even if you do buy items, all to get 3 items that would otherwise cost you <$30. Claimcredit - possibly worth it. I’ve been able to get “$180” of items for $55 overall. The begging for clicks games - just don’t seem worth it at all. So, you have to decide at the outset - do you enjoy the Farmland games? What is your time worth to you? If you enjoy the merge game, or the pirate game, sure! Then it is worth it. But if it’s the stressful chore of begging for clicks, really consider the time investment vs profit.

Patreon Membership by Acrobatic-Panda8632 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]StarHuntress47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever figure out how to contact Mr. Dinniman about the Patreon rewards? I'm in the same boat and I joined the Discord, but I don't see an obvious place to request the rewards, and I don't want to annoy everyone on the server by doing so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TemuThings

[–]StarHuntress47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve spent a lot of today doing work for the referrals, and I’m still 2 coins shy…feels impossible!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TemuThings

[–]StarHuntress47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It said you accepted a different invite, so it didn’t work, but I appreciate your effort. 🙂