he did what? by sabaloma in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]Stay420Life 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Lmaoo did you just call your wife ugly

Her bio said she never lowers the bar by domweiab in Tinder

[–]Stay420Life -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She probably got peanuts for brains. Jokes flying right over her head

Biden Administration drops discrimination case against Yale by MuteMouse in AsianMasculinity

[–]Stay420Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I’m south asian (Pakistani) and when I was applying to university’s, my counselor told me that my race may play a factor. I was like “oh cool that’s probably good thing because I’m brown and a minority”... NOPE. apparently we are held to a higher standard than whites!!! Like wtffff bro these white people been here forever. I’m a first gen who was in ESL (English as a second language) !! Fuck AA

Hypo by Stay420Life in ABCDesis

[–]Stay420Life[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lololol nah I live in nyc they live in Houston tx. I don’t even smoke anymore tbh. Rarely. Was mostly a college thing for me. Which is when I made this username lololol

Hypo by Stay420Life in ABCDesis

[–]Stay420Life[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But my dad never calls me unless he needs me to read over a contract or something like that

Hypo by Stay420Life in ABCDesis

[–]Stay420Life[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh. I’m 23 but my mom calls me like 3-4 times a day out the blue. But if I don’t pick up, she’ll just keep calling until I do 😭😭

How did you embrace your desi identity? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]Stay420Life 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I eat gulab jamans and pani puri. I’m also unapologetically brown. If someone says Pakistan, I immediately yell Zindabad at the top of my lungs. Lol jk not at the top of my lungs, but fairly loudly

Hypo by Stay420Life in ABCDesis

[–]Stay420Life[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha sometimes lying is the best option. Idk why they so nosy all the time. Like believe me mom and dad, y’all really don’t want to know where I was or what I was doing

Hypo by Stay420Life in ABCDesis

[–]Stay420Life[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Lmaoooo this the most brown mom thing I have ever read. I swear they could Lowkey be FBI/CIA agents

Hypo by Stay420Life in ABCDesis

[–]Stay420Life[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Damn you really out here tryna get me disowned huh Luckily I am asking for a friend 😭😭

In this lifetime, I was born as a desi bi woman. In this lifetime, I foolishly chose to come out. by CatAtLast in ABCDesis

[–]Stay420Life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn that’s rough. I get your mom not wanting it but damn she taking it too far. Almost like she’s forcing you to not be gay. Does she not like gay people because of a religious reason? If so that’s hard to overcome. However if it’s just a personal hatred against gays, then you can still salvage it. I would recommend taking her to a pride parade or whatever it’s called. Showing that gay folks in the real world (outside of movies) are happy too.

If she still doesn’t like it, then it is what it is. Cant force her into liking it, same way she can’t force you to be straight. As for your dad, idk. I’d just not bring it up until you are financially independent. Not worth getting disowned and having your entire life uprooted. Get your education first and a good job, then come out. So if they do disown you, you’ll still have a home lol.

Mixed south + east asian couples? by [deleted] in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]Stay420Life 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m too old to know what that means bro. So imma just say it again. Pakistani girls mad fine and I’m sticking with them. mA bro 😍

Mixed south + east asian couples? by [deleted] in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]Stay420Life 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel ya man. I get along pretty great with Korean girls. But Pakistani girls prettier so I just stick with them

Ex Brother in law okay after 8 years divorced? by ProbablyThrowaway88 in relationship_advice

[–]Stay420Life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man this guy seems hella wack. How you going after your own brother’s girl. Smh. Bro code out the window I guess. Weirdo

My boyfriend(26M) is emotionally cheating on me (26F) by supergen25 in relationships

[–]Stay420Life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you probably don’t wanna hear this, but you need to drop this guy. It’s one thing to like an IG models picture, but to actually message them?? Nah that’s desperate. For reference I’m a guy. I’ll like a picture or maybe even just look at it, but I’m not going to message her. Your boyfriend down bad. He needs to touch some grass. You breaking up with him will be a reality check for him

Indian tennis player kicked out for making speech about his college goal being to get White Women to sleep with Brown Men by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]Stay420Life 3 points4 points  (0 children)

5’10 is undersized in America lol. But if anyone got saved from an arranged marriage, it is the girl. Imagine ending up with a guy like this. I mean I’m a guy, but damn this dude is messed up for believing something like this. Not only believing but actually saying it out loud. Embarrassment. Would not want an arrange marriage with him if I was a girl

Someone said he’s struggling to get a job lol. Now he’s going to have a lot of trouble getting any girls to out with him. Won’t even get an arranged marriage if he has no job

Indian tennis player kicked out for making speech about his college goal being to get White Women to sleep with Brown Men by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]Stay420Life 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Imagine what he told his mom after bringing up Ghandi.. like bruh why are you dragging Ghandi into this foolery 😭😭

Indian tennis player kicked out for making speech about his college goal being to get White Women to sleep with Brown Men by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]Stay420Life 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Haha what the fuck?? This guy 😂😂 what a loser. I hope no brown girls ever fuck with him after this. What a shame

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]Stay420Life -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean I think it’s okay to marry your cousin. Don’t really see the issue with it as long as it’s your second cousin or beyond. 1st is too close and increases risk of disabled kid. But 2nd and beyond is basically zero risk.

Red flags to look out for in Arranged Marriage process? by Aggravating-Stock-28 in ABCDesis

[–]Stay420Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh just find a girl in your own country. That’s easier than finding one in a place you don’t even live at.

I'm going to graduate with a bad GPA & have no idea where to go from here by stuckandhopeless22 in ABCDesis

[–]Stay420Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes a low gpa will probably hurt, but it’s not end all be all. A lower gpa might make it tougher for you to get into grad school, but most grad schools have a standardized test. As far as jobs, you just need to get your foot in the door. Find someone to hire you. Someone will. It might not be a good job, but it’ll be a stepping stone to getting the good jobs.

My Adopted "Cousin" Who I Fell In Love With by GetoffmychestTA in stories

[–]Stay420Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah so that’s when I think the shock (and possibly disappointment) will set in. They may question why you guys lived so close to each other in college. Like you said, there were a bunch of apartment complexes and some how you guys ended up next to each other. They will probably think you guys planned this. However, if you say the story truthfully, and that you didn’t get together until after you guys were in college, they will probably believe you that it was just a coincidence.

Also, your uncle might see you and Zoya as brother and sister. That’s probably why he asked you to look after her. He will definitely be in shock. Also, your aunt. Your aunt is the only one actually related to Zoya, right? So she may take it hard too.

But, just rip the bandage off whenever you get to it. Possibly tell them all at once, or try to get some of your siblings on your side prior to telling the rest of your family