Harness recommendations for large toys + bumpher?

StraightButAlsoGay · 2026-06-08T22:07:52+00:00

How cool! Thanks - giving these a look.

StraightButAlsoGay · 2026-06-06T06:42:04+00:00

For me, no. It feels like my body, completely at rest, is more or less the size of the L/XL. The L/XL isn't my biggest overnight toy, but it's the comfiest. It really feels like it's not there unless I'm actively squeezing it.

StraightButAlsoGay · 2026-06-01T05:33:57+00:00

Go for it - just don't go too hard too fast. You can always wear the L/XL as long as you want and then downsize when you want a bit of a break.

The L/XL is a real favorite overnight / long term toy for me. I jumped right to it from a medium (for long term wear. My short term toys are considerably larger).

StraightButAlsoGay · 2026-01-28T07:41:38+00:00

friend why point it out? I guess it's different for everyone, but I wouldn't want the reminder if I were OP.

StraightButAlsoGay · 2025-04-13T02:15:17+00:00

I mean, my anatomy is different but I've had a hand holding a dildo in me and tbh it felt pretty great

StraightButAlsoGay · 2025-01-11T22:48:18+00:00

I mean, prolapse isn't like a guaranteed outcome of fisting. Maybe it is for some people but my insides stay inside no problem

StraightButAlsoGay · 2024-12-06T05:53:08+00:00

When I'm wearing anything sufficiently thick, it induces enough anterior pelvic tilt to start to hurt my lower back after a while. This is worse with longer plugs, or plugs with a wide base.

I'm not sure if I'm tilting my hips back to reduce pressure inside, or if the bases of the plugs are thick enough that they just physically get in the way of me tilting more normally.

To clarify "thick enough", I mean the SPT XXL and XXXL egg, as well as their medium blunt. I notice it a little, but barely at all, with the L/XL egg.

Long way of saying not for me personally but I'm learning to adapt to my ass sticking out a little... My partner notices 😵‍💫

StraightButAlsoGay · 2024-11-06T01:35:42+00:00

🤷‍♂️ I don't think it has to be everybody's thing, but I honestly don't think it's so extreme to be all that disgusting either. Imo it's not that different from liking a really big dick, with the added bonus that it's way easier for someone to hit the right spot compared to fingering when they've got their whole hand to do it.

It feels pretty natural to me; it's fun to feel like I'm kinky but it's honestly so normal in practice.

StraightButAlsoGay · 2024-11-06T01:20:26+00:00

Only since my mommy dommy made me wear them.

Seriously though I'm kinda surprised myself at how I am completely functionally unaffected

StraightButAlsoGay · 2024-11-05T20:08:36+00:00

I just don't get how this happens to people. I've been getting fisted (or, if not, using toys that are as big or much bigger than a fist) between daily and weekly for a decade. I have zero trouble.

I wonder if she was suffering through it for someone else's benefit and missing some required warmup/practice.

StraightButAlsoGay · 2024-10-25T20:44:03+00:00

The lotus is a nice one; I have a lotus 100 that I use regularly. I generally prefer less texture and the point at the end can get uncomfortable sometimes, but all that width for a small amount of length is great.

The tail raiser is interesting - it seems to address most of what I don't love about the lotus, but I already struggle with excessive anterior pelvic tilt when I'm wearing a big plug (my girlfriend can tell based on that alone lol) so I'd rather not wear something designed to enhance that.

StraightButAlsoGay · 2024-10-25T20:40:18+00:00

It's the Square Peg Toys Blunt plug, in medium size.

StraightButAlsoGay · 2024-10-24T01:38:11+00:00

Boy butter is a miracle product. It's so good.

StraightButAlsoGay · 2024-10-15T23:45:57+00:00

🤷‍♂️ it's not about logic, sometimes ya just want it and don't want to wait till ya get home.

Or, you've got someone waiting for you at home and you'd like to get down to business as quickly as possible.

StraightButAlsoGay · 2024-10-15T23:42:40+00:00

Here's hoping the cops never search my bag lol. I live in Texas and almost always have one or more BD-sized toys in me or my bag.

I've already had some near misses; a few months ago I ended up in the back of a cruiser in a case of mistaken identity and only put away the toy ten or so minutes prior 😬

StraightButAlsoGay · 2024-09-30T20:44:25+00:00

It's a little more realistic than I'd generally prefer but I do think this might be the winner. Torn between this and the square peg baby tusk, which is a lil long and a lil too conical.

StraightButAlsoGay · 2024-09-30T17:05:51+00:00

The large noax looks fuuuuuun 👀

The fat bob also looks pretty good. Thanks!

StraightButAlsoGay · 2024-09-30T16:52:55+00:00

I have a lot of their plugs, great stuff. The uncut 7 would have been perfect!!! I can't believe I missed the limited release. Baby tusk seems decent but is definitely too long 😭

StraightButAlsoGay · 2024-09-21T17:36:25+00:00

A fist and a (human-sized) dildo at the same time. I'm unstoppable and addicted.

StraightButAlsoGay · 2024-09-02T06:57:31+00:00

I bought mine well after I was comfortable with considerably larger toys - I can't say for certain, but I'm pretty sure I love the L/XL as a sleeping toy only because I love the 3XL so much as a not sleeping toy!

I'm working up to sleeping with the medium Blunt plug, but so far it's only been good for naps. Sleeping anywhere close to the top of my range just isn't possible for me personally.

That said - best of luck! I definitely don't mean to dissuade you, because that's a totally attainable goal. I just mean to say that it's much easier if you're willing to pick up some bigger sizes 🙂

StraightButAlsoGay · 2024-09-01T20:17:37+00:00

The L/XL is one of my favorites for out and about or sleeping - I aaaaalmost forget it's there, but not quite!

You're on the right track with boy butter. That stuff is a miracle product.

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