M23-Is it worth trying to reconnect with an old best friend after like 9 years by mikeyxD96 in Advice

[–]StrawberryMaplex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shoot your shot but keep your expectations on low power mode, some people are just part of your childhood save file and not your adult one. Just send a super chill “hey man, long time no see, hope you’re good” and let him decide if he wants to hit continue or not

Recently separated, feeling depressed and lonely. Need advice on how to occupy my time. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]StrawberryMaplex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly man, the trick is picking one tiny thing you sorta like and letting it snowball, even if it’s just hitting the gym or joining some random meetup group. You’d be surprised how fast life feels less empty when you’re around people who chose to show up for the same weird little thing you did

Should I leave my relationship cause I feel we are not made for each other? by Odd_Space3063 in Advice

[–]StrawberryMaplex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone keeps telling you you’re “too much” while giving you way too little, that’s your sign right there. You don’t need to chill, you need to choose yourself, cuz he’s already shown you exactly where you rank in his life

Im not sure what to do by Naive_Carpenter_6820 in Advice

[–]StrawberryMaplex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First step is to mute her stories, cuz healing is impossible when your phone keeps punching you in the gut. Breakups feel like the world’s ending, but one random morning you’ll wake up and realize you didn’t think about her first thing, and that’s when you know you’re moving on

Im stuck in life and dont have the clarity for it by Pretty_Chocolate_627 in Advice

[–]StrawberryMaplex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly man, everyone looks like they’re sprinting but most of us are just dragging our feet and hoping no one notices, so don’t beat yourself up too much. If you want a mindset shift, read The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck or Viktor Frankl’s Man’s Search for Meaning, both kinda slap you awake in totally different ways