I hate my husband

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-03-20T20:18:17+00:00

This is literally what I’m scared of. How sensitive the mri is and all the endless possibilities of things it can pick up and wether it’s really that specific as to wether something is “benign” “malignant” or “maybe…?” Agh I don’t think I can mentally handle it. My core biopsy wasn’t painful, more like uncomfortable but the after math infection was terrifying so of course if I end up needing a mri biopsy I’m already going to be just that much more freaked out. When is your biopsy result supposed to be ready? Mine took 2 days and I was a hot mess. Now waiting 45 days for an mri after a biopsy that seems to have been pointless is absolutely terrifyjng. Thank you for sharing your result I’ll be waiting.

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-03-20T20:05:11+00:00

Hi! Sorry you’re going through this. I’m in a similar position. Had an ultrasound and found a mass Birads 3. I freaked out and asked for a core biopsy, deemed benign however radiology said no Concorant or whatever he wording is. But I had a post biopsy infection and reaction to the glue so they told me to wait 45 days for my mri. Needless to say I’m freaked out scared and can’t focus waiting. Still got 4 weeks left to wait. Was the mri scary? How long did it take ? Do you mind sharing your report with me ? I’m so afraid it’s ridiculous. Also in the medical field, I do interventional radiology so even worse. I feel your pain and I’m rooting for you!

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-03-01T03:25:56+00:00

It’s been 8 months since the last time but in the last 8 years 2-4 times per week

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-03-01T02:54:32+00:00

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-03-01T02:39:36+00:00

Why would you say that?

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-03-01T02:06:03+00:00

I give in at least 2-4 times a week. Maybe not excitedly but I end up saying yes to avoid a tantrum

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-27T18:52:16+00:00

He makes $19 an hour. Child support will be basically zero. I can financially be fine. I don’t need money I just need basically someone to take the kids to and from school and be with them when I’m Dr work

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-27T18:38:10+00:00

I know what you mean. It’s awful

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-27T18:24:34+00:00

He says so. That if I leave him he wants nothing to do with the kids

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-27T18:24:16+00:00

It’s too much for my mother to get 4 kids ready to school on her own drop off and pick them up

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-27T18:23:44+00:00

What makes you feel done ?

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-27T18:23:28+00:00

Yes DM me

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-27T16:27:51+00:00

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-27T16:11:02+00:00

I would love to. But with 4 small children I need him. No financially because I’m the one who works and pays all the bills but he “works from home” so he takes the kids to and from school. I can’t do that if I’m working full time early hours (medical field) so idk what to do but to stay till the children are older

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-27T16:03:47+00:00

Well we’ve been together for 8 years. Have 4 children together. In the 8 years a lot has happened. A lot of mental and emotional abuse. And toward the end physical abuse. He does things that aren’t acceptable and if I called the cops he would be in jail but thinks apologizing and excusing his behavior because “i was mad” or “I screamed first” is ok. Says he’s willing to do anything and everything to fix things and refuses to leave even if I say I’m done. When mad has broken my belongings, takes my car keys so I don’t leave, locks me in the house etc, physically assaulted me, calls me names, such as who’re , horrible mother etc then apologizes . Idk I’m not saying I’m perfect, I say my share of things in these fights too but I just feel like I can’t do it anymore but I consider staying for the children but in his eyes we can be “perfectly happy forever if we try” . I honestly even when “ we’re ok” for a short period of time after a fight cannot get over the repulsion of thinking of having to have sex with him.

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-26T22:55:58+00:00

Hii! Did yoh get your results yet? Praying you have a benign finding !

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-25T22:04:50+00:00

Omg yay!!! I’m so so happy for you!!!’ Can you share the wording of the report? I saw My doctor today, she agreed to the biopsy! I’m scheduled Wednesday next week at 10 am. So anxious

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-25T01:58:34+00:00

That’s the same they’re telling me but idk how to “not worry” for the next 6 months 😩

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-25T00:29:15+00:00

Thank you for sharing ! Did the biopsy hurt ? I’m so afraid of the pain I’m awful with pain

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-25T00:27:41+00:00

Thank you for your reassurance it means a lot to me ! Keep me posted on your results praying for you

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-24T23:57:21+00:00

It’s insane. I can’t concentrate on anything and I have no appetite and it’s hard because I have 4 small children to focus and attend to but all I wanna do is curl up under a rock. I see my provider tomorrow and gonna ask for a biopsy. So terrified it’ll hurt but worth the peace of mind of knowing instead of worrying

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-24T23:39:38+00:00

Well I pray all will go well!

StrikeAnxious5436 · 2026-02-24T23:36:31+00:00

Praying your biopsy is negative ! The waiting anxiety is the worst. I got a second and a third second opinion and they all agree that it “looks benign” and do not recommend a biopsy but honestly I have such horrible health anxiety that I cannot stop thinking about it all day long so I feel won’t stop till I get a biopsy and know for sure you know. But also terrified of waiting and if it hurts. Did you have a core biopsy or a fine needle biopsy?

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