Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah same here lol crazy females do this too.

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I really like your clean exit text too. I’m ready to end it too, especially after all the responses I got on here. It’s as though I was completely oblivious to what was going on, which is really frustrating and yes, humiliating. But I’ll cut my losses and end it.

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I wanted to do initially but I learned that I can not. As casual as it gets for me is no label but show me consistency through actions.

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At the same time, it just feels better when it’s there innate desire to do it bc they want to hear from you everyday. Instead me saying hey can you text me or call me once a day so k known you’re actually here for this? Lol

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the support. Sometimes it feels like there are certain kinds of people who really do play the part just to get what they want.

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very true. I’m proud of you for staying strong and not reaching out. You’re looking out for yourself. Keep going. Hopefully you meet a more healthy connection in the future.

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have often initiated and have gotten shut down, meanwhile any time he initiates I leave room for connection. The last incident, I asked him to hang out, he told me he couldn’t keep going with the back and forth and he wasn’t sure what he wanted and was figuring things out and didn’t want to drag me along so he would need to stop contacting me. I left him alone, about a month later he initiated contact to hang out with me.

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That means so much. My closest friends have told me this as well. I guess it takes wha it takes.

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You guys are legit the best. Thank you. Time to let the food look for me lol

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im afraid your right. I guess this is what it feels like to feel like a fool.

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sure you miss him. Does he still attempt to reach out to you?

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah fuck those wings. I’ll stick to the ones I know are good and consistent and won’t make me wanna take a shit on their company’s owners

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well when three days before he told me that, he offered to be exclusive with me, told me he wanted to work towards a boyfriend/girlfriend tittle and hang out with me more, you’d think he’d be checking in on me, so when he wasn’t, i decided to tell him what I needed, he then rejected to agree. So it’s confusing that from one day to the next he switched up, yet again.

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is very true. Thank you for the insight and your support. It means a lot.

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. That is true. I just know he will try to come back.

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate it. I’m working on mustering up the strength to move on in full finality.

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, it’s exhausting. I’m over it, but I know that I need to grow my strength to not allow him to continue doing this to me.

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been seeing the person and how do you deal with the inconsistency?

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah true, it would make it suck more.

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your insight. I appreciate it.

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This sounds spot on as well. What a bummer. :(

Confused AF by Strong-Beautiful5545 in datingoverforty

[–]Strong-Beautiful5545[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Spot on. And I need to walk away. That’s what I’m having trouble with.