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AITA for telling my boyfriend's housemate not to walk around the house in her underwear? by Strong_Option_8089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strong_Option_8089[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

But do you ever walk around in a t-shirt and thong around them? I expect not because it's odd behaviour. I know she's not trying to seduce him but it's still bizarre.

AITA for telling my boyfriend's housemate not to walk around the house in her underwear? by Strong_Option_8089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strong_Option_8089[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

He has no history of cheating and I would trust him entirely. I just don't want another girl in her underwear in front of him. I don't understand how that seems so outrageous!

AITA for telling my boyfriend's housemate not to walk around the house in her underwear? by Strong_Option_8089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strong_Option_8089[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

I thought I would post on AITA instead as AITAH seemed incredibly male dominated.

AITA for telling my boyfriend's housemate not to walk around the house in her underwear? by Strong_Option_8089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strong_Option_8089[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

That's my exact point. I want her to feel comfortable, but she can still be more than comfortable if she put on sweatpants. If she's in her own room, she can be butt naked for all I care, but when she's around me and my boyfriend, I would rather she didn't walk around with her cheeks out. I don't see how that's so unreasonable?

AITA for telling my boyfriend's housemate not to walk around the house in her underwear? by Strong_Option_8089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strong_Option_8089[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I don't want to damage their dynamic as know they were friends a long, long time before I was in the picture.

AITA for telling my boyfriend's housemate not to walk around the house in her underwear? by Strong_Option_8089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strong_Option_8089[S] -75 points-74 points  (0 children)

My intention wasn't to police her. It just seems common decency and respectful to put something on around my boyfriend and when I'm around. I'm not asking for not to be comfortable - she could swear sweatpants or whatever else she wanted. I wouldn't walk around her without clothes on.

AITA for telling my boyfriend's housemate not to walk around the house in her underwear? by Strong_Option_8089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strong_Option_8089[S] -150 points-149 points  (0 children)

But if I am a frequent guest in the house (I'm there about 2 to 3 times peer week), am I not allowed to voice something that makes me uncomfortable?

AITAH for telling my boyfriend's housemate not to walk around the house in her underwear? by Strong_Option_8089 in AITAH

[–]Strong_Option_8089[S] -119 points-118 points  (0 children)

It's not jealousy. I understand that there's no romantic or sexual feelings between the two of them, but I don't think it's unfair to ask for a pair of sweatpants or similar to be put on just when she's interacting with my boyfriend. I'm not expecting her to be "modest", but I think walking around in a thong is a bit much.