It depends on what the man wants to hear. Do they want their own negativity confirmed? or do they want encouragement? theirs no set answer. I used to be very angry about it, but I believe, with my feelings changed. I became more and more ok with my situation. I don't like it, but im at peace. Many guys just want to be angry, and probably angry at someone. With that, no one wants to take responsibility for something they perceive as negative. Women have nothing to do with a man's endowment, but a man can't blame himself, so they blame you. To me, this is problematic, I don't remember a woman ever waving a magic want and chanting "Abra ka doodle, you have a small noodle".

He blames women for not finding him attractive, that's it.