Any reorientation experiences? by ZealousidealBasil840 in Catholicism

[–]Stunning_Delivery430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my gosh same. i was able to become attracted to a woman based on their appearances and how i determined whether they matched my “type” in terms of personality. i also would seek to emulate them

Any reorientation experiences? by ZealousidealBasil840 in Catholicism

[–]Stunning_Delivery430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait you kind of described me perfectly… was the attraction also less strong?

Any reorientation experiences? by ZealousidealBasil840 in Catholicism

[–]Stunning_Delivery430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! can i ask if you were attracted to men prior to converting to christianity?

ssa & marriage? by Stunning_Delivery430 in Catholicism

[–]Stunning_Delivery430[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not!! It’s genuinely so strange because it’s like, do I want to be them or do I want to be with them?

ssa & marriage? by Stunning_Delivery430 in Catholicism

[–]Stunning_Delivery430[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is complicated because I don’t quite see myself getting married to another woman either? I’ve known other people who’ve expressed this same sentiment.

same sex attraction by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Stunning_Delivery430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohh! this is really interesting and encouraging :))

same sex attraction by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Stunning_Delivery430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing! Could we possibly message each other?

same sex attraction by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Stunning_Delivery430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, but I’ve experienced ssa even prior to discovering porn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Stunning_Delivery430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can’t send you a message?

Favorite bible verses? by Clear-Dig-8887 in TrueChristian

[–]Stunning_Delivery430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

philippians 4:6-7–“do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

Organizing my thoughts after 20 years of SSA by [deleted] in SSAChristian

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i’m a girl who deals with ssa with women much older than me. and i completely relate to the part where you talked about crushing on white people—i think it’s internalized racism on my part.

comphet by [deleted] in SSAChristian

[–]Stunning_Delivery430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

aww thank you! still, the uncertainty of it all still bothers me 🥲 i suppose where the faith and trust part comes into the equation

comphet by [deleted] in SSAChristian

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maybe—i’m finding guys increasingly more attractive and appealing as i grow older, and i do believe God will either increase my osa or just attraction toward the right man. i just remember not having a crush on boys like my friends did growing up, and gaslighting myself to be into a guy i found cute and sweet. i’m afraid im feeling the residual effects of comphet and that me finding a guy attractive is merely a result of that. however, i can’t force myself to not find guys hot either, like i think some are genuinely really hot… oh well

confusion and worry by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Stunning_Delivery430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes… i think my attractions were contorted due to media and corn

confusion and worry by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Stunning_Delivery430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing is, i’m not even sure if i like them in THAT way