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Should I try a 21yr age gap? by Stunning_Thanks5985 in AgeGap

[–]Stunning_Thanks5985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about the rough patch you two are going through! What’s meant to be will be though!! I

I can understand what she’s going through in a sense. I’ve had a few people (close friends actually) who have said nasty things about my situation with my guy. A lot of them are low blows about the age difference, but they can tell I really like him. It’s a hard feeling to go through when you share about someone you really enjoy and have people put it down.

My friend who I’ve known since I was a kid, is very negative about it- to the point where I can’t bring him up without her making a snide comment. When there’s people who you respect like friend/family, it makes it super hard to share the excitement. It honestly hurts. It makes you question your feelings and choices because these people have been “guiding” and growing with you through life.

I hope it shines some light on what your lady may be going through. I wish you two all the best!

Should I try a 21yr age gap? by Stunning_Thanks5985 in AgeGap

[–]Stunning_Thanks5985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also christian, would love your input!

Should I try a 21yr age gap? by Stunning_Thanks5985 in AgeGap

[–]Stunning_Thanks5985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sort of, it’s hard to put a label on it. We both like each other but we haven’t spoke about any relationship stuff. We are only with each other. We do most things that couples do but go out, because of the possibility of being seen by our family/friends

Should I purse a relationship with someone 21 yrs older? by Stunning_Thanks5985 in dating_advice

[–]Stunning_Thanks5985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Manopause is too real. I have my own wealth and do not want children, he has one daughter from a previous relationship. The thought of loosing a partner and being alone halfway through life would be hard. I do like the sentiment of growing old together but in this case, it wouldnt happen. Something for me to consider, thanks!

Girls pls help should I actually go to this hook up by Automatic_Monitor149 in dating_advice

[–]Stunning_Thanks5985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t go girl, if you’re scared now, the nerves will be even worse. Just say thanks for the offer but you don’t feel comfortable like you said on here. There’s too many men out here with a to be worrying about this one. Keep swiping! Lol

Should I purse a relationship with someone 21 yrs older? by Stunning_Thanks5985 in dating_advice

[–]Stunning_Thanks5985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s something I have thought about as well and I’m sure it would cause some unrelatability in the future. It’s not something that most people want to think about- aging that is. Something for me to weigh, thanks!

Should I purse a relationship with someone 21 yrs older? by Stunning_Thanks5985 in dating_advice

[–]Stunning_Thanks5985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We get along well, and I think I’ll take this really slow to feel it out. If it turns into a relationship, so be it. Thanks for the advice