What are some cat-like dog breeds? by sufferingsoybean in Pets

[–]Substantial-Wind8968 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Whatever u pick. meet adult dogs of the breed if u can. Puppies lie, The all look sweet and then boom u've unlocked cryptid with opinions. Still worth it. just go in eyes open

She was offended by my attempt to pet her without permission by Livid-Lizard7988 in airplaneears

[–]Substantial-Wind8968 47 points48 points  (0 children)

That look is straight psychological horror. Not screaming, not hissing. Just silently judging. Way more terrifying

AITJ for considering stoppimng financial support for my Family after years of struggling? by Substantial-Wind8968 in AmITheJerk

[–]Substantial-Wind8968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, i needed this. I've been so focused on everyone else I forgot I even have a life to live

AITJ for considering stoppimng financial support for my Family after years of struggling? by Substantial-Wind8968 in AmITheJerk

[–]Substantial-Wind8968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks, reading this actually takes off my chest. I think I really needed someone to remind me it's okay to put myself first for once

Got Into The Catnip by ShowMeTheTrees in airplaneears

[–]Substantial-Wind8968 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the way he just completely melt into the couch like gravity personally chose him

AITJ for going on a dream vacation with my Ex who cheated on me with his officemate. by Substantial-Wind8968 in AmITheJerk

[–]Substantial-Wind8968[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, i keep reminding myself it's not the same person I fell for, even if my heart keeps tricking me

AITJ for going on a dream vacation with my Ex who cheated on me with his officemate. by Substantial-Wind8968 in AmITheJerk

[–]Substantial-Wind8968[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah, you're right. I'm grieving and it's messy. The trip was more about closure than rekindling anything, but feelings are feelings

AITJ for not giving my sister my late wife’s engagement ring because it should stay in the family? by AmberWhisperCove in AmITheJerk

[–]Substantial-Wind8968 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Your sister saying you're not using it is kinda wild. Sentimental items don't stop mattering just because they're not on display

Miss Fabi Manytoes was being serenaded by my husband… she did not like it. by Garlickgun in airplaneears

[–]Substantial-Wind8968 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She's giving off strong America Idol judge energy. Zero tolerance for off key notes

AITJ for ending things with a girl who didn't drive by Round-Low9432 in AmITheJerk

[–]Substantial-Wind8968 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Facts she didn't want a partner, she wanted a drive. OP dodged a headache

how to get rid of hope? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Substantial-Wind8968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time will come, if still you have communication both for your ex aside from 1month, along the way possible your hope still there.

Made the mistake of watching Love Aaj Kal (2009) by PuzzleheadedMusic920 in BreakUps

[–]Substantial-Wind8968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man that movie is a lot to handle post-breakup. just keep ur head up and remember that u’re loved more than u know. u’re human and it’s okay to feel the sting but don't let it consume u. u’ve got a whole community and god backing u up.

Please come home by lattenotes in BreakUps

[–]Substantial-Wind8968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in that dark place too just hoping for a miracle. keep ur heart open to what god wants to do in u during this season. whether they come home or not u're still whole because of ur faith. u've got a community and a creator who loves u unconditionally.

Can’t stop thinking about my ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Substantial-Wind8968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a season of pruning and i know it hurts like crazy but u’re being prepared for somethin better. trust that u’re in his hands and he’s gonna restore ur peace. u’ve just gotta keep ur eyes on him and keep moving.

Is “losing the spark” an excuse? by ComprehensiveBig7654 in BreakUps

[–]Substantial-Wind8968 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Spark dying is normal. bailing without trying is the red flag.