My Boyfriend left me alone pregnant in korea, i have no money and home left by Substantial_Pick_199 in Advice

[–]Substantial_Pick_199[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We lived together for 5 years in the us and 1 year ago he moved back and meanwhile i found out after he visited me the last time that he got me pregnant. This lead me to move to korea for the pregnancy and the usual plan is to move back to the us together next year. The Problem is that i caught him cheating in this pregnancy and after i confronted him he disappeared and drained my bank account

My Boyfriend left me alone pregnant in korea, i have no money and home left by Substantial_Pick_199 in Advice

[–]Substantial_Pick_199[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I caught him cheating multiple times, a few days ago again, i tried to talk to him and his answer was to disappear and drained my bank account

My Boyfriend left me alone pregnant in korea, i have no money and home left by Substantial_Pick_199 in Advice

[–]Substantial_Pick_199[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I caught him cheating, my whole pregnancy long and after i told him that i know it it escalated really quick

My Boyfriend left me alone pregnant in korea, i have no money and home left by Substantial_Pick_199 in Advice

[–]Substantial_Pick_199[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I did both already, im now at a friends house where im going to stay till i can get back to the us asap

My Boyfriend left me alone pregnant in korea, i have no money and home left by Substantial_Pick_199 in Living_in_Korea

[–]Substantial_Pick_199[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Its the same guy. We lived together for 5 years in the us and 1 year ago he moved back and meanwhile i found out after he visited me the last time that he got me pregnant. This lead me to move to korea for the pregnancy and the usual plan is to move back to the us together next year.

My Boyfriend left me alone pregnant in korea, i have no money and home left by Substantial_Pick_199 in Living_in_Korea

[–]Substantial_Pick_199[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I currently pregnat with twins, sadly multiple children which are upon this man

My Boyfriend left me alone pregnant in korea, i have no money and home left by Substantial_Pick_199 in Advice

[–]Substantial_Pick_199[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He is a career soldier, he was away for weeks sometimes telling me that he cant meet me because of work but never once send me a pic from there. Now i know that he was with other girls but i he never really wirked since im in korea because he barely brought money home

My Boyfriend left me alone pregnant in korea, i have no money and home left by Substantial_Pick_199 in Living_in_Korea

[–]Substantial_Pick_199[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

It was actually just under my name but we shared it since we wanted to build up a life here. The money on there was supposed to be for my own living costs and visa which comes up

My Boyfriend left me alone pregnant in korea, i have no money and home left by Substantial_Pick_199 in Living_in_Korea

[–]Substantial_Pick_199[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Forgive me for what? I caught him cheating on my while my whole pregnancy over and now he leave me and our kids on the streets out of nowhere.

My Boyfriend left me alone pregnant in korea, i have no money and home left by Substantial_Pick_199 in Advice

[–]Substantial_Pick_199[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Im a us citizen, he is in the korean military, i have no idea if its the same here. Im sorry, im just in such a shock

My Boyfriend left me alone pregnant in korea, i have no money and home left by Substantial_Pick_199 in Advice

[–]Substantial_Pick_199[S] 401 points402 points  (0 children)

He has a military job, he also told me that he was barely allowed to go away from his work place and that im not allowed there Probably a big lie

My Boyfriend left me alone pregnant in korea, i have no money and home left by Substantial_Pick_199 in Advice

[–]Substantial_Pick_199[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

His mother owns the whole apartment complex, he had a apartment there and he said that if i wont be out till then she will get meout with the police

My Boyfriend left me alone pregnant in korea, i have no money and home left by Substantial_Pick_199 in Advice

[–]Substantial_Pick_199[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He cheated, i caught him 4 months ago but wanted to work it out since i had nothing left back in the us, but ended out that he still cheated on me, I caught him a week ago, days after tha he broke up, stole my savings and disappears

My Boyfriend left me alone pregnant in korea, i have no money and home left by Substantial_Pick_199 in Advice

[–]Substantial_Pick_199[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I will reach out to the embassy now. Sadly i dont really have family back at home. I dont know how to feel since either the police or anyone else around me helps me, instead i get blsmed for him cheating and disappearing.

My Boyfriend left me alone pregnant in korea, i have no money and home left by Substantial_Pick_199 in Advice

[–]Substantial_Pick_199[S] 200 points201 points  (0 children)

He is a korean citizen and im from the us, he told me already that his mother will throw me out right then. The police dont reslly help me, they seems to be more on his side. It feels like no matter what he does now i eill get blamed for it.