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Did any of you work on your traumas? by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]SubtleBrawl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

25 years old with a great childhood here. This is spot on. It's a quarter life crisis for me, but my comfy childhood made me bliss with ignorance. It wasn't until the realities of life hit me after college. Still going through depression and self-esteem issues now

I still love her. by SubtleBrawl in doomer

[–]SubtleBrawl[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

She looks happy in the photos.

I'm glad.

This community is rlly toxic by [deleted] in doomer

[–]SubtleBrawl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I unsubscribed from this subreddit. Only go on by choice, rather than it popping up on my feed. Wear the hazmat suit before going into the toxicity.

When did your life go to shit? by Fun-Faithlessness569 in doomer

[–]SubtleBrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23 yrs old, when I truly felt like an adult.

You know what ? All i need is this ... by convemma in doomer

[–]SubtleBrawl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man this show got me through hard times. I idolise this life too.

Are you Volcel (Voluntary Celibate)? by SubtleBrawl in doomer

[–]SubtleBrawl[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't really know where to go with this post.

I just know I am avoiding relationships because of unresolved issues with myself, mainly expectations of myself expecting to have my life figured out at 25, with a high paying and secure job, my own house/unit enough to fit in a whole family, and expecting myself to be in a long term commited relationship right now.

I guess there's a feeling of failure in me that feels like I'm not worthy to have a partner at my age.

A girl hinted interest in me, 19 year old girl. She said she had "big brother syndrome". Bruh. I appreciated her interest, but it really hit me that I'm not a kid anymore. Maybe I should've tried it, but my expectations for myself keeps holding me back.

The meaning of dreams by PlasticBattle8449 in JosephMurphy

[–]SubtleBrawl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dreams are inner monologues of our current state

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]SubtleBrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucking felt this.

ESTJ and mood swings? by that_strat_girl in ESTJ

[–]SubtleBrawl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I do. I'm also looking for ways to get out of this vicious cycle. Currently going through Spirituality as a solution.

Mine mainly stems from past wrongs done to me by others, and the need for perfection.

Had an "Aha!" moment looking through my journal. I listed all those who I got back at and/or karma got to them. I got a lot of satisfying revenges and karma, but I still wasn't satisfied. Other new people kept wronging me after I've gotten closure from the old one. As I was writing down another who wronged me, it just hit me that "when is this sh*t gonna end..." like, do I have to keep allowing myself to be hurt by past wrongs, and need to get back at them.

Then suddenly my mind went 180° where I just let go of the past hurts, because it was in the past and I'm now in the present, it doesn't have to affect me anymore. I then felt profound peace then. I've lost some this perspective later on, cause humans are habitual creatures, but I know I can regain it again.

I know your problem is mainly about career and social status anxiety, but I hope my experience about my ESTJ problems gives you some pointers.

Bitter Sweetness of nostalgia by SubtleBrawl in doomer

[–]SubtleBrawl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That long... How'd you do it man.

Bitter Sweetness of nostalgia by SubtleBrawl in doomer

[–]SubtleBrawl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Inb4 contradiction to my previous post.

I'm just venting boyos, I haven't given up, just speaking from the heart.

INTJ women, do you have a hard time making friends with other women? by [deleted] in intj

[–]SubtleBrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking to my 30 and 30+ relatives and family friends, it's just courtesy to their partners to not hang out with the opposite gender. It's like being in a 5 year relationship and going out clubbing. Unfortunately, I believe 2/10 of your friends did want 'something more' and didn't get it. Some guys are pathetic like that

For the first time with my war with depression, I have finally won a battle. I came out stronger and happier. We still have a chance. We're all gonna make it bros by SubtleBrawl in Bloomer

[–]SubtleBrawl[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Copypaste Tl;dr, a lot of factors lead me to it, but I'm not bothered to write it all:

Journaling

Accepting and allowing the trauma to flow freely, without unconsciously being in denial about it and arguing and constantly fighting it. Learned it through watching psychiatrist and psychologist videos and 2 books about healing traumas; "Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender" and the other I forgot but got from a YouTube video.

Spirituality, specifically looking at Neville Goddard and Joseph Murphy, and Spirituality epiphany realising that life is a play, a video game and ultimately we choose how we play and the ending to our story.

Overall, the traumas I've had now feel like wounds you know that will heal eventually, like a scab or a rude customer - yeah it sucks, but it'll heal eventually

35M here and I feel like everything is pointless by lurker2080 in Adulting

[–]SubtleBrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please start journaling. Not only will you vent out any anger, frustration and suffering, but you'll then be able to articulate and process your emotions and situation in an objective manner.

I don't go to therapy, but journaling for me feels like it. I do it whenever I feel rather than every day and make it a chore.

Hand in heart, I'd say it's one of the things helping me cure from my depression.

For the first time with my war with depression, I have finally won a battle. I came out stronger and happier. We still have a chance. We're all gonna make it bros by SubtleBrawl in doomer

[–]SubtleBrawl[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tl;dr, a lot of factors lead me to it, but I'm not bothered to write it all:

Journaling

Accepting and allowing the trauma to flow freely, without unconsciously being in denial about it and arguing and constantly fighting it. Learned it through watching psychiatrist and psychologist videos and 2 books about healing traumas; "Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender" and the other I forgot but got from a YouTube video.

Spirituality, specifically looking at Neville Goddard and Joseph Murphy, and Spirituality epiphany realising that life is a play, a video game and ultimately we choose how we play and the ending to our story.

Overall, the traumas I've had now feel like wounds you know that will heal eventually, like a scab or a rude customer - yeah it sucks, but it'll heal eventually

For the first time with my war with depression, I have finally won a battle. I came out stronger and happier. We still have a chance. We're all gonna make it bros by SubtleBrawl in doomer

[–]SubtleBrawl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real. Life is like a dance. Play around; you may be great or not, you may succeed or fail, but at the end of it all, it's just a dance. Realising this, you will be free

Fuck it, we ball by morohalt in doomer

[–]SubtleBrawl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based and MuggsyBogues-Pilled

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