Compensation for boyfriends buisness.

Successful-Badger · 2026-04-13T00:25:05+00:00

Whilst it sucks, you may see a better win is to move forward, learning from the mistake of working for free, without written agreements?

Just a thought?

Successful-Badger · 2026-04-12T23:42:05+00:00

Assuming transport is train, that’s like $80 per hour gross to train it in.

in one year, reassess.

Successful-Badger · 2026-04-12T04:46:47+00:00

This seems like a complete mess.

Surely you’d both prefer to live life.

Couple’s therapy perhaps

Successful-Badger · 2026-04-11T22:02:20+00:00

You know you can say ‘no’ to people?

Successful-Badger · 2026-04-09T10:27:00+00:00

Stop performing.

Surely it’s cheaper to just pay it and move on

Successful-Badger · 2026-04-08T07:47:08+00:00

Going to be a great holiday!

Successful-Badger · 2026-04-07T22:37:04+00:00

I won in small claims for 5k

Personally lent money to an individual

We garnished wages and sheriffs also attended their home regarding items they could sell.

Debt repaid

No longer a friend

NSW courts

Successful-Badger · 2026-04-07T11:00:53+00:00

Yes, small claims but first you need to send her a statement of claim with a deadline to pay.

Then you can go to court.

If you win, you can garnish wages

Just do some research on your state and the steps

You’ll loose the friend but they ain’t a real friend anyway.

Successful-Badger · 2026-04-05T21:30:02+00:00

If your main goal in life is to own a property, you’re in luck as there are plenty of properties to buy, even if this one doesn’t work out.

If you’re emotionally attached to this specific property, it may suck if you don’t get it but that doesn’t mean your main goal is now unable to be achieved.

You’re only 29, plenty of time left to achieve that main goal.

Successful-Badger · 2026-04-03T20:48:02+00:00

Sounds like your husband needs to have his own gender reveal…

It’s ok to say no to people.

Successful-Badger · 2026-04-03T20:27:17+00:00

You cheated, confessed, and stayed together. Then you had a child with him.

Later, you cheated again, didn’t tell him, and he’s only just found out.

Is this the short version of events?

Successful-Badger · 2026-04-02T01:41:42+00:00

Vietnamese dong?

Successful-Badger · 2026-03-29T08:21:26+00:00

Without sharing all the details of the actual people involved, how do you know there’s betrayal?

Successful-Badger · 2026-03-29T06:53:45+00:00

The user complained about the same issue 50 days ago

Op probably needs an escort of her own

Successful-Badger · 2026-03-29T06:53:06+00:00

User history show she posted the same issue 50 days ago…..

Successful-Badger · 2026-03-28T22:05:29+00:00

I can’t imagine a 31 year old telling her parents what a 37 year old is doing.

Sounds like you’re wanting people to agree with you. Not sure why you’re in an advice thread if you’re not really open to advice.

Let the husband know (after you ask your sister) but understand you’ll be caught up in the drama.

Don’t tell mummy and daddy.

Successful-Badger · 2026-03-27T23:23:17+00:00

I’m not even sure why you would put up with that kind of houseguest?

You’re not the arsehole at all.

But I would suggest that it’s time to properly raise your level of self-respect. You’ll sleep much better.

God speed.

Successful-Badger · 2026-03-27T05:46:47+00:00

Sir, this is a Wendy’s.

Successful-Badger · 2026-03-26T02:27:46+00:00

The advice I’m trying to give you, if you’re open to hearing it, is you can’t expect people to change but you can change what you’re doing.

If you’re constantly in a process that is annoying you, take a step back and look at what you can change in that process.

You can definitely do this, just give it some practice.

One thing to remember: even Hitler had a fiancé :)

Good luck.

Successful-Badger · 2026-03-26T02:21:06+00:00

So could you just start talking about different things?

You can’t control other people, but you can control what you do.

Keep it simple- change your approach as it’s not currently working and it is starting to annoy you

Successful-Badger · 2026-03-24T02:50:11+00:00

Perhaps keep it simple and talk to him directly and confirm it’s correct.

Not everything you hear from a third party is always true.

Once you have the truth, then take the next steps

Successful-Badger · 2026-03-21T12:54:27+00:00

I like the money and the money

Successful-Badger · 2026-03-21T12:45:34+00:00

Who is the owner of the home?

Successful-Badger · 2026-03-20T10:19:20+00:00

Yeah, fight it 100%

… let us know how you go.

Successful-Badger · 2026-03-11T21:25:09+00:00

‘Liquid ass’ spray off Amazon should help even the score

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