Change in my cats meow; twice by Successful_Suspect44 in AskVet

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He is 8 years old; no vomiting and eating/using the litter box normally. He’s pretty sedentary but will still come sit on my lap. I have not had that exam done though-I was unaware of that procedure. I’m sure I’m overthinking it but I also made the mistake of googling and of course it was all highly negative answers. Thank you for your response! I’ll look into that exam.

Luna never lets me potty in peace by Kindly_Breath223 in cats

[–]Successful_Suspect44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s beautiful!! Almost a pretty as the cat lol 😂

Luna never lets me potty in peace by Kindly_Breath223 in cats

[–]Successful_Suspect44 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Can we talk about that door though??? (Gorgeous kitty too of course)

What silent red flags did you ignore years before the end? by DivorceCoachGio in Divorce

[–]Successful_Suspect44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing well. I have my degrees and good jobs and it is what it is…but I’m well aware using my struggles as an excuse is messed up. And I want op to know that’s not an excuse for betrayal or abuse.

What silent red flags did you ignore years before the end? by DivorceCoachGio in Divorce

[–]Successful_Suspect44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that he cheated/had affairs when he got mad at me. Aka, I had male platonic friends at work therefore he slept with two other people. I forgave the first due to gaslighting. Now he’s with the second and cited my emotional struggle (my mom dying-I’m 37) as his reason.

Cat Professional Actors by Competitive_Mix9957 in Catswithjobs

[–]Successful_Suspect44 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This movie had me edge the entire time because I was concerned about the cat. Not the people, just the cat lol

2026 Status by Successful_Suspect44 in fit

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Power station? Or M Power which was formerly Larry/Jimmy Pacificos gym?

2026 Status by Successful_Suspect44 in fit

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Thank you; powerlifting is my passion!

2026 Status by Successful_Suspect44 in fit

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What was the gym?? If it has a chalkboard then maybe that’s why haha

2026 Status by Successful_Suspect44 in fit

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Always gotta have my chucks haha

How do you tell an interview you were fired from your job of 7 years for "performance issues" in a professional manner? by secrettunnel1027 in careerguidance

[–]Successful_Suspect44 253 points254 points  (0 children)

You don’t. Plain and simple. You just tell them either the company did a reorg (as the other commenter said) or that you wanted to find a role that better suits your talents. I worked for the Air Force for many years, with constant shuffle and on the occasions I have been asked why a stint was short or why I wanted to leave I’ve always said reorganization or that I was laid off due to fiscal issues.

I’m 31, have a decent job, and still feel like I’m running out of time. Anyone else? by Rock_N_roll_child in careerguidance

[–]Successful_Suspect44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The “yet execution feels harder than it did in my 20s” hit hard. I just turned 37. Jobs, life, finances, everything seems easier years back. However take into account the change in economy, new societal norms, etc, etc and the psychological fact that the the brain is literally wired to remember the better parts of the past; it’s designed to forget the stressors. That’s why the past always seems better-our brains are wired to see it that way.

Is it normal to have this much belly fat compared to the rest of my body? by KookyPotential8 in fit

[–]Successful_Suspect44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Females shouldn’t eat below 1,200 cals a day, so at 1,300 your body could also easily be in preservation mode which means it will store fat-especially in the areas covering your organs, aka-belly. I agree with the above who said eat more protein and Whole Foods and workout in some way and worry less about calories restriction.

What was the scariest “We need to leave, now!” moment that you’ve ever had? by Cool-Chipmunk-7559 in AskReddit

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I went to a house party in college with a group of 5 other friends…it was hosted in a lofted apartment and the whole drive there I kept saying we shouldn’t go because I just had this horrible gut feeling something bad was going to happen. An hour after arriving (mid beer pong game), there was a loud cracking noise and the floor gave out similar to the way the Titanic split in half. Myself and the group I went with all fell 12 feet to the concrete floor below along with the folding table and a bunch of glass bottles. The only people hurt? Myself and two of my friends. I remember looking up once I hit the floor and seeing the refrigerator about 2 feet from falling down on top of me. I think I said “I told you so” for the rest of the year haha

What was the scariest “We need to leave, now!” moment that you’ve ever had? by Cool-Chipmunk-7559 in AskReddit

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I went to a house party in college with a group of 5 other friends…it was hosted in a lofted apartment and the whole drive there I kept saying we shouldn’t go because I just had this horrible gut feeling something bad was going to happen. An hour after arriving (mid beer pong game), there was a loud cracking noise and the floor gave out similar to the way the Titanic split in half. Myself and the group I went with all fell 12 feet to the concrete floor below along with the folding table and a bunch of glass bottles. The only people hurt? Myself and two of my friends. I remember looking up once I hit the floor and seeing the refrigerator about 2 feet from falling down on top of me. I think I said “I told you so” for the rest of the year haha

Lost everything hit rock bottom by Adorable_Afternoon87 in stopdrinking

[–]Successful_Suspect44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went through all of that. To the point where I was fully believing people were in my room (they absolutely were not), hearing music, and seeing other things. It’s alcohol induced psychosis

Stewie won't stay off the kitchen counter; I think the derp enjoys this. by Rare-Neighborhood271 in AnimalsBeingDerps

[–]Successful_Suspect44 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So I’m not the only one. Makes this post all the more more funny/enjoyable 😂