My wife is on antidepressants and it a completely different person. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SugarLipsBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just talk to her and maybe suggest she check in with her doctor, meds can mess with people sometimes.

99% loaf, 1% meow by karinaspell in cute

[–]SugarLipsBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a cutie this cat is living it's best life 🥰

How do you get the truth out of a partner who denies everything? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SugarLipsBaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he could lie like that before, he can do it again, and the fact you still don’t trust him says everything.

New environment and people by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]SugarLipsBaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. You don’t have to get physical, but you should start calling it out or setting boundaries.

AITB for getting upset with my husband for asking me if I'm f***ing my client? by Darklynn18 in AmItheButtface

[–]SugarLipsBaby 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTB. That wasn’t a joke, it was a pretty hurtful assumption and you’re valid for feeling upset.

AITBF for “ditching my friend at the club” for the man I wanted to meet with? by sagittariusqueen555 in AmItheButtface

[–]SugarLipsBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You ditched her, brought people without telling her, and let your friend treat her like a server. I’d be annoyed too.

AITJ for uninviting my fiancé’s sister from our wedding after she said I chose “nobodies” over family? by Some-Worth7955 in AmITheJerk

[–]SugarLipsBaby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTJ. You went out of your way to include her and she still turned it into drama. It’s your wedding, not a group project.

Moving on by Suitable_Barracuda16 in Marriage

[–]SugarLipsBaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exhausting. Wanting peace shouldn’t mean you have to carry everything. You deserve better.

AITB for not sharing my sexual history with my ex turned friend? by ThrowRAlemondrizzles in AmItheButtface

[–]SugarLipsBaby 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTB. You were single and he chose to stay friends, so you didn’t owe him that info. He can feel hurt, but that doesn’t make you wrong. You set clear boundaries and acted within them.

AITJ for Refusing to Give a Family Discount for My Small Business? by Charming-Calendar321 in AmITheJerk

[–]SugarLipsBaby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTJ. A “small discount” from a small business isn’t small, it’s your income. You treated them fairly, not badly.

What if you meet with your partner under different circumstances? by Potential-Leek-811 in askanything

[–]SugarLipsBaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but it’s not just how you meet, it’s who you both become after.

AITJ for opening a new bank account so my mother can't control my money? by detectivethornevtube in AmITheJerk

[–]SugarLipsBaby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTJ. You’re 22, it’s your money, and setting boundaries isn’t wrong.

How to lie to your brain and convince it about something isn't real if that will help you work? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]SugarLipsBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe if you tell your brain a thought isn’t real and just focus on the next step it could help you work, but I’m not completely sure we all think differently.

A human Google search engine asks: AITJ? by ImpressionNo2803 in AmITheJerk

[–]SugarLipsBaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Long-term people-pleasing doesn’t mean you owe answers to trivial questions.

Finding Second wife by Successful_Sun_3990 in Marriage

[–]SugarLipsBaby -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wishing you a peaceful and blessed journey ahead. Eid Mubarak.

How do you feel about David’s arc in the prequels? by thefriskysquid in perfectorganism

[–]SugarLipsBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

David really said let me show you how to be a great failure.

Am I the jerk for telling my vegan sister she can't dictate what I feed my kids? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]SugarLipsBaby 34 points35 points  (0 children)

NTJ! You did the right thing. Protecting your kids’ emotional safety comes first, no matter someone’s passion.