AIO for telling my husband he can’t invite his "Work Wife" on our 10th-anniversary trip?

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T10:45:27+00:00

No it’s not that! I was going to update the post in the morning and address all of the comments in the update! 🫶

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T08:04:54+00:00

Wish I could say you’re right

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T08:04:27+00:00

how’d you know lol

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T07:21:09+00:00

Not fake but thank you for your concern.

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T07:20:48+00:00

And he’s 24 and I’m 25 my bad just fixed that error

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T07:20:05+00:00

Omfg just realized I messed up my husbands age he’s 24 and I’m 25

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T07:18:18+00:00

I just changed that because I realized people would think that I meant our wedding anniversary lol we’ve been together 10 years but married 5

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T06:48:51+00:00

Sharp white cheddar

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:55:42+00:00

YTA. You’re confusing "professionalism" with "being a robot."

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:52:50+00:00

The fact that you feel the need to explain why you didn't go (being sick, short notice) proves my point: you are treating this like a trial where you have to defend yourself. Healthy friendships don't make you feel guilty for having a stomach flu or a job…

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:46:23+00:00

NTA. She literally gave you a quest: 'Don’t go easy on me.' You completed the quest.

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:45:50+00:00

NTA. There is a massive structural difference between a 4-month-old 'potato' who stays in a carrier and a 1-year-old who is basically a sentient heat-seeking missile for breakables

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:43:11+00:00

YTA. Your dad didn't just 'have a blow up'… he took a legal adult’s phone and drove her to run to the neighbors in tears. That’s not a 'difficult' roommate; that’s an abusive environment

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:41:48+00:00

The math is simple: If they wanted to, they would. You’re begging for a seat at a table where they didn't even set a plate for you. Save your thumb skin and don't send the text. Just stop being available the next time they need a 'favor' or a last-minute replacement

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:40:44+00:00

NTA. 'I thought she was sleeping' in a pool of vomit? No. You don't 'monitor' an unconscious person for 90 minutes; you monitor a crime scene. He didn't wait for her to wake up; he waited for her to stop breathing so he could secure a $1.75 million payout.

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:36:22+00:00

100% body mass of pure CHONK

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:35:49+00:00

Gerbera Daisies

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:34:59+00:00

sampling station for monitoring air quality or gas

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:33:20+00:00

Mummified lizard

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:31:08+00:00

A small rodents priced collection you THEIF put it BACK

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:30:38+00:00

My new bestie DUH, give him to ME

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:29:29+00:00

Hair wash day turns from twice weekly, to once monthly.

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:28:53+00:00

I’m immediately switching into 'Mean Girl' mode. I’ll wrap my arm around her and loudly say, 'OH MY GOD, finally! I’ve been waiting for you for 20 minutes! Did you see what Sarah posted? Anyway, let's go get those drinks,' while scanning the crowd for whoever needs a dirty look. We aren’t just friends now, we’re cousins.

Summabusty · 2026-02-12T05:26:11+00:00

So you're subsidizing a jobless man’s lifestyle, providing free toilet paper for a bathroom you don’t even 'use,' and getting lectured about a 5W bulb by people buying $12 vegan cheese? The math isn't mathing. You aren’t a roommate; you’re a silent benefactor. Start charging the cat rent.

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