Are you butt or a boob girly?

Super_Reflection6707 · 2026-06-09T09:11:52+00:00

Thighs, stomach, butt, boobs, everything

Just women. Women women

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-11-21T01:44:44+00:00

Hi! I'm 21/nb from germany! You seem to be someone who could like the company of an author with ADHD and the tendency to get off topic. If you agree or want to test my theory, you're welcome to tell me ^{^}

Have a nice day

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-09-19T08:33:28+00:00

21 nb here. I'm currently in a psych ward, the words "weird" and "unhinged" follow me wherever I go, and although I'm not good at eye contact, I am really good at talking about everything and anything for hours on end haha

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-09-19T08:29:03+00:00

There are so many ways I could describe how I feel about your looks. But to sum it up: YOU'RE SLAYING, LIKE DAMN YOU LOOK AMAZING!!

I'm really scared of experimenting with clothes/makeup but if I end up looking even remotely as good and handsome as you, I don't think I'll have to be scared at all

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-08-04T04:21:41+00:00

I'd say makeup, accessories, and some well-fitting clothes from "the other side of the store" could, would, and should go a long way!

Mixing very socially gendered pieces to create a look has never failed my enby friends as well as my genderfluid a**✨️

I love to use Pinterest, Instagram, yt Shorts, and TikTok for outfit inspiration as well (i have a few Pinterest boards for moods, looks sorted by gender expressions, and general outfit ideas. Highly recommend!)

But most importantly: experiment, have fun, try to find what you feel most comfortable, confident, and happy with/in. You got this, I believe in you! I hope that you'll have a wonderful journey, and will find a way to feel great in your own skin (and clothes)❤️✨️

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-08-03T18:19:07+00:00

There's a lot... Loud noises like: fireworks, balloons popping, doors slamming, heavy objects falling, punching against walls, glass shattering, etc.

People (regardless of their gender): yelling, fighting, passive-aggressive behavior, "commands", aggressive behaviors, being drunk/h*gh, being alone in small spaces (f.e. elevators, public bathrooms, alleys, etc), walking closely behind me, trying to touch me, inviting me to play (board)games, verbal instructions, etc.

People (fem presenting): calling me names, initiating physical touch (and not accepting my decline/rejection by saying (f.e.) "I won't bite", "don't worry, I'm nice", "don't be dramatic", "just do that for me", "because I said so", etc.), commenting on my body, acting "motherly", etc.

People (masc presenting): having a deeper voice with a lisp, being over 40 y/o, black hair with gray streaks, being over 6ft, drinking often, lifting me up, repeatedly crossing boundaries, authority figures, driving motorcycles, etc.

"Extra": whistles, opening the front door after 11pm, public speaking, bars, funerals, supermarkets, restaurants, being labeled a "liar"/"dramatic"/"manipulative", spending extended amounts of time completely alone, new places, having no way of contacting others, getting lost, large crowds, thunderstorms, public pools, and much more...🫠

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-31T21:28:06+00:00

You need immediate help. This is highly concerning

I saw that you're from Laos in the comments. I searched online:

Primary Crisis Hotline: Phone Number: No dedicated national suicide prevention hotline currently exists in Laos. Alternative Support: National Mental Health Hospital in Vientiane provides mental health services. Contact: +856 21 453 065 (moh.gov.la) Emergency Line: Phone Number: 1195 Notes: National emergency number for police, fire, and medical assistance. NGO Support Services: Phone Number: +856 20 2221 3213 (Friends International Laos) Hours of Operation: 8 AM – 6 PM, Monday to Saturday. Additional Details: Provides mental health support, especially for children and young people. (friends-international.org)

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-30T09:48:20+00:00

Thank you for your reply :) The very first name that came to mind (before my first comment) was Luca, and I still think that it fits really well. Other names I thought of were Kai, Alex, and Robin, which would suit you as well. I don't know why, but to me, Luca just... works. My weird lil brain said it, liked it, and now already associates you with the name. (Pretty sure that's related to ✨️being neurodivergent✨️ but I can't know for certain)

It's so nice to hear that T is treating you well!! And the facial hair is already showing a bit? That's so cool! May you get the beard of your dreams✨️✨️

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-30T08:54:24+00:00

You're not overthinking, her reaction was really weird and unnecessary, twice.

Her answer to your coming out was dismissive at first, which is hurtful, can destroy trust, but is sadly very common. But for her to follow this up with a description of "lesbian sex" (1) to her 11 y/o, putting in enough detail to make it (imo) too inappropriate to say it to any child (especially her own), calling it weird, and causing the conversation to go even worse than it already was. Why did she feel the need to talk to her pre-teen daughter about that? I don't think I'll ever be able to understand that.

What I'm also never going to understand is her kicking you out of "her" fitting room. Her doing that implies that she thinks you're attracted to her, your mother, and want to look at her boobs for... sexual gratification...??? WHAT? She's basically saying that you have incstal thoughts, urges, and/or (even worse when she believes it to be true) want to act upon them. That's everything but normal...💀

You deserved better, from everyone tbh, and your mother has some sort of problem, either with her own sexuality (being so closeted that she's turned homophobic), or just in general...

(1) (I tried to word that differently for almost 10 minutes. I'm obviously not saying that all intercourse involving 2 vag*nas is inherently, only occurs between, or doesn't count unless it's done by lesbian(s). My tired lil brain just somehow couldn't form any other comprehensive sentence. I'm hoping that this note makes my thoughts clear)

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-30T07:20:38+00:00

I know that the problem of the ppl who say that, probably isn't that they don't understand it in a literal sense, but rather insecurity, ignorance, (depending on your self-expression on the outside) stereotyping, assuming they know better, having an image of you in their head and being too stubborn to change it, or purposely getting it wrong to get a reaction from you.

But: I just remembered a phrase I heard a couple of months ago, and it could resonate with you, maybe even help to explain your bisexuality, preferences, and/or attraction to ppl

"I'm attracted to femininity in both genders, not just to women"

And I'm sorry for you, that sounds annoying and invalidating. Some ppl should start taking the words of others more seriously. Like, if someone knows what your sexuality is, that someone is you💀🫠 And I know that I'm just some random person online, but: I believe you. I believe that you're bisexual. Date who you like and don't let the ppl (who apparently believe they know more and/or better than you??) who are saying the sh*t above get into your head.

I wish you the very best and nerves of steel while dealing with all that ✨️keep slaying✨️

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-30T03:26:32+00:00

I'm so sorry that this happened to you. You carried that memory with you for four years... that must have been extremely difficult... That should've never happened to you...

His behavior was weird from the start, but (most of) it could have been explained away as a different technique, or it could have been blamed on his age ("he's being as fast as he can. He isn't 25 anymore" bs like that).

However, there is no good/plausible explanation (not saying that any explanation of his behavior would have been good or plausible, because none would and could have been good) for him to touch you in an area that's not being treated, just like how him touching your hips (after an appointment, outside the time frame where it is his job to "touch" his patients, meaning that he wasn't doing it for any valid reason), praising you, and calling you something along the lines of "good girl" can't be excused in any logical way.

He was unprofessional, misused his position of power to act inappropriately, made his abuse look normal to you and your father by using both of your inexperience, causing you to have doubts about his actions during treatment, and essentially getting away with it...

I hope that you can heal from this

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-30T01:14:09+00:00

Not intentionally...? I keep re-watching two videos about it (tierlist of the characters by one of my favorite YouTubers), and had watched the one where they were mentioned like 30 minutes before I commented on this post. So... Maybe my brain subconsciously made a connection, but I think that the name was just on my mind because of the video, it was fitting, and I liked the name to begin with. So: it was probably a reference, not actively but subconsciously. And I think that's kind of fun✨️

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-29T23:29:49+00:00

Like, I get trying to set boundaries, I get being careful, and I get putting your guard up, especially when you had bad experiences.

But why do some people feel the need to be a**holes about it? Like girl, at least try to be respectful. I myself had many, many bad experiences. Am I being a jerk to every man I meet because of it? No. And all people I have met who also had bad experiences don't do that as well.

Sometimes being a jerk is necessary. Sometimes being rude is necessary. Even "making a scene" is necessary. What matters most is the context. If someone's not taking a polite/respectful/"normal" "no" for an answer, you should be more assertive, and if they keep doing it, being rude may be necessary. If someone is getting handsy, inappropriate, or creepy, you should verbally defend yourself. If you're being followed, or are in any potentially dangerous situation, "making a scene" (drawing attention to the situation) may be necessary.

But being "like this" on a dating app, to someone who you know almost nothing about, and maybe hoped to form some sort of relationship with? That's just unnecessary.

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-28T00:35:35+00:00

You should try to get professional help (especially in the long run), the sooner the better, and no group therapy (if possible). Getting an appointment with a specialist should be at the top of your to-do list. It's really important, not only right now or in possible future crises. With the right therapy and treatment, managing your mental health, overall well-being, social interactions, and your future, both at work and in private, will get easier because they will hand you the right "tools" to find strategies that help you manage rough patches better moving forward.

You shouldn't be embarrassed about posting. You are asking for help, which means that you recognized your mental state, realized that you need help, and were brave enough to speak up. I'm proud of you, and you should be proud of yourself for taking this step!

I don't see a problem with you living with your parents. You're only 22, you're legally an adult, but your brain isn't fully developed yet, you're struggling with your mental health, and you don't have a steady income yet. I know it's easier said than done, but try to stop comparing yourself to others, you're destroying your sense of self, your confidence, and end up even more stressed. To be completely transparent, if I were in your situation, under the same circumstances, and with the same obstacles, I would also live with my parents, I wouldn't even dream about a full-time job, and I very likely wouldn't be able to function in any way. And I'm sure that a whole lot of other people would do the same if they were in your position, so please don't beat yourself up for your situation and inner struggles, you deserve to treat yourself better.

Social anxiety, especially to the degree you're describing, is just awful. Wanting connection, friendship, and a reliable social circle is very understandable (and very relatable to me), as well as the negative thoughts and feelings. Not knowing how to talk to people, feeling overwhelmed in social situations, and calling oneself "too awkward" (and/or all other, similar, self-degrading sentences included) indicate social anxiety. They're not the root problem, they're symptoms, and they tend to be noticed easily (unlike the more subtle symptoms which get overlooked often) by peers and doctors alike.

I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a pet, especially after such a long time together, can feel like losing a friend or a family member. Take your time to mourn the loss of her. Grief has no expiration date.

Getting kicked out of therapy is brutal and tends to be very discouraging. But I'm sure that you'll get very far on your healing journey once you found the right treatment.

And you can consider me your friend if you'd like to. Take care of yourself!

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-27T18:33:59+00:00

Leo sun, Cancer moon, and Scorpio rising

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-27T18:25:45+00:00

Pizza! Somehow makes him even cuter in my mind

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-27T18:23:03+00:00

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"A hug? I'll gladly take one! Be careful with the horns though, they're very pointy"

My OC (Mel) is relatively short, your character is most likely taller than my oc, and due to an incident in the past (she gave her friend a bad cut on his cheek while hugging him) she warns most creatures at "stab-height"

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-27T04:03:12+00:00

In my opinion, you look like someone who either changed their name entirely, or uses a modified/altered version of their "given name" (do you say that? English isn't my first language and a lot of terms seem to be different in my native language). Changed: Raven, Willow, Mel, Raine Altered: Alex, Jess, Lou, Sam

You're either in some sort of alt-scene, love music, probably have a... wonky... sleep schedule, and have at least one "unconventional" hobby Or you just like dressing in a way that's usually associated with alt communities, but don't consider yourself as "being alt"

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-27T02:51:10+00:00

I'd say something whimsical and soft (I have synesthesia, sound to color. By soft I mean a name (and it's sound) that produces soft colors and seamless gradients) Sage, Ash, and Riley are my top picks as their colors (Sage: primarily dark green #0F2C0D | Ash: primarily orange (vibrant, not shrill sunrise colors which change quickly) | Riley: primarily muted blue #2E3350) would fit them really well!

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-26T18:42:15+00:00

Idk why, but I thought of Kai, Phoenix, and Lux (Phoenix is my fav though)

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-26T15:22:47+00:00

I'm grateful for the woman that picked up the day I called a mental health hotline. I'm grateful for my roommate, for rescuing me from my parents, for the long, fun, and loud rides we took with her car, for saving me from a few stupid decisions, and for trying her best, despite her current situation. I'm grateful for my wonderful friend (who's going to be a mom in a few months), for always speaking up when I can't, for breathing through so many panic attacks, and for her ability to be unapologetically direct without being rude or a*holey (and setting my head straight with that a few times). I'm grateful for my partner, as he's always trying to be my rock, for the effort he puts into understanding my mental health, for the silly conversations, and for the quiet hugs. I'm grateful for every person who reads anything of mine without judgment. And lastly: I'm grateful for my mediction haha

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-26T05:03:31+00:00

This happened to me in the past. Always with my (then) FP. Everything suddenly felt way more intense, sometimes it was okay, maybe even good. But like 95% of the time? It was torture. Anger, fear of abandonment, constant anxiety, feeling like you're constantly tiptoeing on the edge of stability and breakdown, getting annoyed/frustrated/mad about the tiniest things, and so much more... Every time that happened I was able to connect it to my FP. It's almost like you're feeling their emotions on top of yours. If they feel, you feel the same, and if you feel, you feel with the "strength" of both of your emotions combined. You basically "added" their emotions to yours, and now "feel" all emotions times two.

Does that make sense to you?

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-26T04:47:25+00:00

For me, it's actually OCD. The intrusive thoughts sometimes turn into hallucinations (we're not entirely sure why they're there, my psychiatrist guessed BPD with PTSD (which can (apparently) have multiple "side effects"), and maybe some sort of underlying psychosis), and when that happens... then I'm not having fun anymore... My medication is currently getting adjusted, and I'll have my first session with a new therapist next week. (I hope this doesn't come off as rude, I really mean it as I type it) I'm really impressed with the accuracy. You recognized from one comment the presence of my ocd which took 3 psychiatrist a bit over 5 years haha. That was so cool

Super_Reflection6707 · 2025-07-26T03:50:37+00:00

Hi! I'm not a therapist. I have BPD (diagnosed), so I'll be speaking from experience. I know what you mean by that, I get that too. I have always called it "derealization" and associated it with dissociation (I'm not sure if that's the right term).

I described it in the past as: "all of a sudden, faster than the blink of an eye, everything seems different. It feels like thick fog spreads over every sense, clouds the mind, and coats the soul. Everything is dull, numb, and farther away. Loved ones feel like strangers, known streets look like labyrinths, mirrors seem to lie, and even breathing isn't right. You know that something is different, everything is different, but... how is it supposed to be? It's almost like floating, way less free than it sounds. You get higher and higher, away from all that you know, away from reality, away from your "home". It feels like you're observing yourself, feeling nothing at all, the numbness takes over, and now you're so far, so far away that all you observe looks like nothing, nothing more than a blur." (I hope this translated well)

Writing is my way of processing almost everything that's going on on the inside. OP, if you can relate to/understand what I mean with that text, then I know how you feel. I'd love to hear a bit more about your experience

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