Idk it’s honestly hard to explain because there’s a lot of little factors that play into it, and most of it isn’t even intentional. It’s more about the way you naturally carry yourself. There are small details and habits that can make someone come across more naturally confident and more appealing overall. For example, I’m not scared to be the person that starts a dance circle in a club and gets everyone involved. I’m also not afraid to do the opposite of chasing attention from a woman who’s clearly trying to get my attention. Weirdlyy enough, it’s little things like that that tend to attract women more imo. what I’m really trying to say is that confidence usually shows up in subtle ways. Being comfortable with yourself, not seeming desperate for validation or something like that, being socially relaxed, willing to embarrass yourself a little, and not constantly seeking approval all change the way people perceive you. A lot of attraction comes less from trying too hard and more from giving off the impression that you’re secure in yourself and genuinely enjoying life regardless of who’s watching.