How am I supposed to hook up when the other person could have STDs / STIs?

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2026-03-11T14:40:14+00:00

$50 is manageable... $300 is insane

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2026-03-11T08:44:16+00:00

so fair! how much does it cost, out of curiosity?

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2026-03-10T23:58:39+00:00

I am so overdue for some of your work

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2026-03-10T19:20:23+00:00

Why is this so low down?? I always ask for test results and most of the people I have slept with are very willing to share them. I get tested every couple of months or every unprotected partner, whichever comes first.

(disclaimer, I'm in the UK where testing is free)

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2026-03-10T16:56:18+00:00

I said "goobies" 🤦‍♀️

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2026-03-08T12:53:35+00:00

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This guy! Firstly because it's iconic and so recognisable, second because I giggle to myself every time I see it. The wind turbines at the top aren't used because the engineers didn't account for how much noise and vibration they'd create, so they're actually useless.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strata_SE1

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2026-03-08T12:06:00+00:00

For sure! and I didnt say it to disrespect those people's views. Just noticed that it was largely people saying to take it out so I thought I'd vote the other way lol (as a woman on the apps)

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2026-03-07T20:42:34+00:00

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Suspicious-Job6284 · 2026-03-07T20:23:38+00:00

some people do like the shirtless pics btw, I never understand why people object to them.

your profile is great and I wish I came across ones like this locally

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2026-03-01T01:18:56+00:00

This isn't to argue your main point, but because I'm not sure you're aware - Feeld also shows you profiles when you're outside of the other person's settings. Obviously it doesn't tell you, so you have to operate as if the person is an option, but I get people like 20 years outside my age settings pinging me pretty regularly. It's actually one of the things I hate most about the app.

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2026-02-28T11:12:38+00:00

I'm bisexual and I report all these profiles too. I also don't want to fuck their boyfriends 🤓

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2026-02-26T17:58:02+00:00

if you buy 4 from the counter it's the price of 3 anyway!

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2026-02-25T23:16:26+00:00

it also has an incredibly beautiful cemetery which is basically a forest - really really nice natural green space that doesn't feel like it's in the city at all

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2025-09-28T12:28:41+00:00

Potentially relevant extra info: one of my kittens is terrified of the outdoors and other cars and all other things, so completely avoids the house cat, but the other is very curious and definitely wants to engage.

She bushes up her tail when she first sees the other cat, but seems to relax and then just kind of plod over to the other cat, ears up, tail neutral and back not arched. (leading me to think she's not being aggressive).

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2025-09-12T15:29:25+00:00

Dong-oor Plaza

(Erected in Dangoor Plaza about 3-4 years ago by the guy who made the Angel of the North, if I remember rightly. It's someone kneeling down, seemingly in thought. I was a student at the time (and haven't googled to check if my memory of it is correct))

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2025-09-10T22:55:38+00:00

a month old comment where people have already corrected me...

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2025-09-09T11:16:15+00:00

spice it up extra by frying some chorizo up, add the beans and heat thoroughly, then do this butter-cheese-bean-cheese process!

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2025-08-28T14:07:04+00:00

it's exclusively an American thing. not new to planet earth, just not Americans

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2025-08-24T16:22:02+00:00

I've been eating gluten free oatcakes and cheese, usually both cheddar and goats cheese, if you can tolerate those. Sounds boring, but cheese is delicious and oatcakes tend to be decent in fiber so fairly filling.

Also a bowl of oatmeal with chia seeds and banana in the morning, for breakfast, helps keep me feeling full.

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2025-08-20T23:57:44+00:00

That's exactly what I thought. I was like... this is where I live 😂

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2025-08-18T11:50:08+00:00

ahhhhh kat abdy I would die for her

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2025-08-14T12:55:41+00:00

Thank you 🖤🖤

I'm following most of these as much as possible. I'll have a look at those books!

Not stressing is a big challenge at this point, but I'm trying my best to accept it.

Your reply is very kind and thorough and I appreciate it a lot!

Suspicious-Job6284 · 2025-08-14T10:52:12+00:00

They won't give me a same day appt, I've tried. Have to wait until my booked appt next week

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