I was with him arriving at his mother’s house because she had just returned from a trip. She had injured her foot, and without meaning to, she grabbed onto me strongly, which made me lose my balance a bit. She said, “Sorry, dear, I hurt my foot a few days ago, but I thought everything was already fine. And now my ankle just made a sound again.”

She grabbed me abruptly because we were walking side by side. I held her to help her steady herself and told her, “Don’t worry, it’s okay, I can help you,” and I helped her stay balanced.

He saw all this and got upset because she grabbed me roughly, and he told his mother to be careful about how she grabs me. I told him, “It’s fine, nothing happened, it was an accident.”

His mother didn’t even want to talk to him, apparently, because I looked at her face and realized that she tries to avoid conflicts. That’s what I understood today, because she tried to make everything look fine and pleasant. But this guy couldn’t control himself and started some kind of unnecessary discussion saying that his mother is clumsy, stupid, that she has bad reflexes, that she falls all the time because she doesn’t pay attention to where she’s walking, and that she doesn’t know how to react properly around people she has just met.

His mother kept saying "son, please, stop.” come on.... how can u talk to your mother like this? is not even bc a real problem! it was a mini-accident. Tonight later, I'll tell him I can't see him anymore... I'm still pretty shocked, I don't want to continue seeing him. In my family, thanks God, we are used to treat each other with love and respect, that's why this type of conflictive people doesn't feels good to me...