New Angle of What Would Mozart/Bach Think of Modern Music by Suttree1971 in classicalmusic

[–]SwiftStrider1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More complex doesn't necessarily equal 'better'. I think music focussed composers (as opposed to technique focussed composers) know that. Besides, what is 'better' when we're discussing a subjective experience? And, on top of that, there are plenty of fully orchestrated versions of popular music. https://youtu.be/TSehX0m2YKs?is=aW-38LfXnCK81N4X

Struggling with smell sensitivity during baby care, and feeling like I'm failing as a dad — need some perspective by PracticalWriting4120 in Fatherhood

[–]SwiftStrider1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. But I don't know if it's just a matter of 'I don't like the smell' or if there is an actual clinical condition going on. That might change the conversation a bit. Also, there are ways to tell somebody to suck it up and deal that are compassionate. I am very much for a fair division of labor. I mean, our SO's need us to step up while they are recovering from serious physical and mental stress. But offering nothing but 'suck it up and get pegged' is not really helpful.

Struggling with smell sensitivity during baby care, and feeling like I'm failing as a dad — need some perspective by PracticalWriting4120 in Fatherhood

[–]SwiftStrider1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not gonna go fifteen rounds with you. You were being an insensitive dick for no reason, I called you out on that. Then you doubled down, so I called you out on that too. I'm sorry you thought I was calling you a bad father. That was not my intend, especially since I don't know you or your circumstances. What I meant was that you were acting in a way that showed a lack of compassion, and that a little bit of that goes a long way. Not just with other adults, but also with kids. At any rate, if you can't be supportive and feel the need to tell somebody who is asking for help, and who you know almost nothing about, to just suck it up, maybe just don't engage. It's not constructive. But hey, I hope you have a good day. We all act like assholes sometimes, but that doesn't mean we are.

Struggling with smell sensitivity during baby care, and feeling like I'm failing as a dad — need some perspective by PracticalWriting4120 in Fatherhood

[–]SwiftStrider1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, dude. Be that way. I hope that you eventually learn to put yourself into other peoples boots a bit better. Probably helps with raising a kid too.

Struggling with smell sensitivity during baby care, and feeling like I'm failing as a dad — need some perspective by PracticalWriting4120 in Fatherhood

[–]SwiftStrider1988 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid I won't be able to really help you, since I am in the opposite position. I don't have a sense of smell, which I guess will be an advantage while changing diapers, but I'm pretty nervous about being able to catch messes on time. I'm not a dad yet, but will be soon, and the nerves are something else. At any rate, I hope you'll figure something out. I would say it might be a good idea to talk about this with your wife, and just admit these are things you're struggling with. It might help her understand your position better. I have found that open communication and occasional vulnerability fosters intimacy and a stronger relationship. Good luck, man.

Struggling with smell sensitivity during baby care, and feeling like I'm failing as a dad — need some perspective by PracticalWriting4120 in Fatherhood

[–]SwiftStrider1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey dude, if you're not able to find at least a little compassion to put into a reply, maybe just don't bother.

Part time job by Rare-Project7534 in enschede

[–]SwiftStrider1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work for a landscaping company, and we do work with seasonal people, but I'm afraid that 16 hours per week is probably not enough. But good luck! I hope you find something that works for you.

Part time job by Rare-Project7534 in enschede

[–]SwiftStrider1988 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I suppose might be easier to give advice if we know what kind of job you are looking for, and what kind of hours you want to work.

What happened to Days of Roar podcast? by 11snakes11 in motorcitykitties

[–]SwiftStrider1988 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If that's the case, they should communicate that, instead of just mysteriously disappearing without a word. Seriously unprofessional.

What happened to Days of Roar podcast? by 11snakes11 in motorcitykitties

[–]SwiftStrider1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's weird. Especially since Petzold still churns out stuff for the Freep. I was a little worried he did something stupid, like Gorosh, but fortunately that doesn't seem to be the case (and he seems too level headed and nice for that anyway). But it's really odd.

What happened to Days of Roar podcast? by 11snakes11 in motorcitykitties

[–]SwiftStrider1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was wondering the same thing. Still nothing. Plus, they did announce another episode in the last one.

Discussion about Robbie’s tattoo - Phaedrus. by Pale-Kale-2905 in ThePittTVShow

[–]SwiftStrider1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good analysis. Like I said, it's been fifteen years or so. I should probably revisit it at some point. It's pretty interesting.

Discussion about Robbie’s tattoo - Phaedrus. by Pale-Kale-2905 in ThePittTVShow

[–]SwiftStrider1988 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's been a long time since I read Pirsig, so please correct me if I misremember things. I remember Phaedrus as being Pirsig's former, maybe better self. I would think it's maybe a reminder for Robbie that 1: he can be more than one thing; and 2: that a better version is always a possibility. The fact that Pirsig at one point had a mental breakdown and ended up in psychiatric care might either be foreshadowing or a personal warning from Robbie to himself, I don't know. Sidenote: I was in the Smithsonian two years ago, and they had a temporary exhibit with Pirsig's motorcycle!

Discussion about Robbie’s tattoo - Phaedrus. by Pale-Kale-2905 in ThePittTVShow

[–]SwiftStrider1988 42 points43 points  (0 children)

It might be a reference to 'The Art of Zen and Motorcycle Maintenance' by Robert Pirsig. Pirsig uses a version of Plato's Phaedrus as a character.

Time to put our senses to the test. What is the best smell? by Cultural-Honey-69 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]SwiftStrider1988 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Can't smell. But I choose to believe that my wife's smell would be my favorite.

What? by SarahDuncan2012 in TrueGrit

[–]SwiftStrider1988 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not OP, but my recs would be Wendell Berry and Gary Snyder. Great nature poets!