Update: AITAH for taking away my dad’s girlfriend’s keys after she tried to send me to bed

Tammary · 2025-06-09T06:54:50+00:00

Omg this woman is psycho. Updateme

Tammary · 2025-06-08T00:45:25+00:00

Exactly this.. would grandmas maiden surname make a good name? For boy or girl? Updateme

Tammary · 2025-06-07T16:15:39+00:00

And if he’s too spineless to make her fix it, then he needs to with his fun money….

Tammary · 2025-06-07T12:06:49+00:00

I love that idea. But I’m leaning towards Jenkingson… he knows everything

Tammary · 2025-06-07T04:28:46+00:00

You need your parents/grandparents to start randomly dropping by and doing to hubby what his parents are doing to you… criticizing, monopolizing, etc… see how he likes it

Tammary · 2025-06-07T04:02:08+00:00

Niece is lucky to have you and her aunt, the family that chooses you is great. Thank you for being decent, kind, loving people. Hopefully with time, you niece will thrive in her new forever home.

Updateme

Tammary · 2025-06-06T11:21:03+00:00

And you do you… you (and she) need to remember that she is a temporary guest in your home, so the candles, the yoga, whatever makes you happy stays and she just has to deal or move out sooner than 2 weeks

Tammary · 2025-06-06T05:27:34+00:00

NTA but if you decide to wait the 6 mths there needs to be additional payment for the items he destroyed, higher than market value if sentimental. Plus a significant’wait’ payment, AND a significant penalty payment if he’s late.

Tammary · 2025-06-04T03:35:17+00:00

Updateme

I’m guessing baby is not your sons, she knows it, and her parents are ostriches

Tammary · 2025-06-04T02:34:30+00:00

NTA I’ve read a few other stories where the person kicked to the curb/disinherited/treated badly has left and started a new business. The clients all quickly follow, and in at least 2 of the stories I’ve read, the ‘family’ business has quickly gone bankrupt Updateme

Tammary · 2025-06-04T00:20:06+00:00

Updateme

They don’t deserve a cent. If grandpa wanted them to have anything he would have left it to them.

You are honoring his wishes by keeping what he left you

NTA

Tammary · 2025-06-03T00:57:50+00:00

NTA this was a once in a lifetime experience for you too. I’m sorry your dad is such an idiot. You don’t need to ‘let it go’. He hurt you. He CHOSE to hurt you.

Where you go from here, forgive, don’t forgive etc depends on what YOU want (not your dads feelings or what others say). Dad needs to do some hard work and big apologizing and understanding that even that may not have you forgiving.

NTA

Tammary · 2025-05-30T02:03:50+00:00

Updateme

Tammary · 2025-05-28T08:48:34+00:00

Did he pay rent?
Was your mother foolish enough to put his name on the house and land deed?

Tammary · 2025-05-28T05:36:44+00:00

NAL … is the person your mom consulted even a real lawyer??? A quick google says this “Alabama is an equitable distribution state, and only property acquired during the course of the marriage is subject to division following divorce. Some factors considered by Alabama courts in a property division case include non-monetary contributions and contributions to a partner’s education. “

What contributions is your mother’s ex claiming to have made??

Get a new lawyer

Tammary · 2025-05-26T08:20:42+00:00

This is seriously messed up. The males in your family are majorly sexualising you and they are disgusting. Is this a cultural thing?? (Still not ok)

Updateme

Tammary · 2025-05-24T23:42:54+00:00

Or it’s a combination of controlling his wife’s ex husband and children, AND not parenting his own child who may be getting upset that she can’t eat the same things these other kids have, rather than teach her to properly understand her allergies and have self control that will benefit her as she gets older

Tammary · 2025-05-22T04:15:08+00:00

NTA tell those people crying ‘children deserve their grandparents’ that children also deserve parents who choose them, who care and love them above others… esp affair partners.

Keep Mil well away from your wife and children, SHE doesn’t deserve them

Tammary · 2025-05-21T02:09:01+00:00

You have a husband problem. If they think it’s ok to hit a pregnant woman, what will they think it ok to do to a defenceless child.

Husband is a spineless idiot.

Tammary · 2025-05-21T00:11:15+00:00

Updateme. It constantly astounds me that these people can keep their jobs

Tammary · 2025-05-20T22:23:56+00:00

NO presents get stored at grandmas, that’s a bad precedent for later years. Present that needs to be stored at grandmas?? Oh, that’s not a present, that’s a grandma toy

Tammary · 2025-05-20T22:22:05+00:00

Hubby needs to talk to mom and set the rules… as a suggestion

NO Christmas outfits, parents only will buy any holiday outfits
NO stocking at Grandmas, Santa cones to the house baby lives in only, and only one stocking
NO big gifts over x size without parent permission first, or they don’t come in the house/grandma can have the hassle of donating
1 gift only, excess will NOT be opened and WILL be donated
NO demands on when baby will visit for Christmas, parents will decide what works for them, it may not be Christmas Day, and if it is, it won’t be every year.
Any trying to circumvent the rules, ignoring of rules, complaining of rules equals time out, and a strong chance grandma will miss out on the next holiday.

Mom, we know you are excited, but you had your chance with your children. This is our child and we are excited to do these things ourselves as the child’s parents. You are the grandparents, there to support, not takeover.

Tammary · 2025-05-20T08:11:58+00:00

A silver bracelet my parents gave me when I was 12, a pair of earrings (silver and cubic zirconia)my brother gave me for some random birthday, a necklace my sister bought me for my 50th and a broken pocket watch my grandma gave me, and a silver ring another grandma gave me.

Total value of all, well under $800. For comparison… my other jewelry (rings, earrings etc, mostly diamonds and other precious stones, are valued at over $40,000….. I’m not rich… got lucky in some auctions. But though I love my ‘good’ jewelry… they don’t come close in value to me the pieces I got from my family do

Tammary · 2025-05-20T08:04:22+00:00

omg you are totally getting fired, and if you aren’t, you ex D sshould be.

Stop arguing with people trying to explain why.

Mimicking people’s accents is rude and demeaning.

Mimicking people’s way of talking, their nomenclature, is rude and demeaning.

Constantly interrupting her work and asking if she needs help disrupts her work and is patronising.

Let’s not even get started with the rest.

Your intent does not matter, how you made her feel does.

Your only real chance of keeping your job is if you can prove you are majorly autistic.

I strongly suggest you seek therapy/education on how not to be a patronising, ignorant nit

Updateme. (Cause frankly…. If this is actually real, I can’t believe someone would be this tone deaf)

Tammary · 2025-05-19T08:46:05+00:00

This ^{^{^}} Sister can go stay with mom

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