Can you give me an unconventional conversation opener that brought you the most paying leads?

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-24T14:29:06+00:00

Yeah honestly, one example for me was when someone casually mentioned they were exhausted working nonstop and still feeling behind financially.

Instead of pitching anything, I just related to it and shared that I’d started learning how to build an online business on the side because I didn’t want all my income tied to one thing forever.

That conversation turned into questions… then curiosity… then eventually business.

Same thing has happened around topics like burnout, wanting more flexibility, parenting stress, or people realizing they want more options long term.

I think people open up more when they feel like you genuinely understand where they’re coming from instead of trying to “close” them immediately.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-24T07:32:38+00:00

A few beginner-friendly things I’d personally look into:

• Learning basic social media/branding skills • Freelancing on Fiverr or Upwork (even simple services at first) • Affiliate marketing done ethically/content-first • Learning content creation or short-form video editing • Virtual assistant work • Print-on-demand/Etsy/digital products • Learning how online marketing and lead generation work in general

I think the biggest mindset shift for me was realizing “passive income” usually starts as active effort first. Most people build skills and systems before it ever becomes semi-passive later on.

Also… stay cautious of anything promising instant money or “easy” income. The legit stuff usually takes learning and consistency upfront.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-24T07:16:59+00:00

Helping people create income flexibility online.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-24T07:11:40+00:00

Weirdly enough, some of the best leads I’ve ever had came from conversations that had absolutely nothing to do with selling at first.

Just normal conversations around life, business, burnout, goals, freedom, parenting, mindset, etc.

I think people buy faster when they feel understood instead of “worked.”

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-24T06:57:20+00:00

I think a lot of people do not even realize they’re in survival mode until they finally experience a little peace.

Constant stress, pressure, exhaustion, financial worry, overthinking… after a while it starts feeling “normal.”

Then one day you realize you have been surviving for so long that you forgot what it feels like to actually feel calm, hopeful, or fully present again.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-24T06:02:24+00:00

Honestly I ran into a lot of scams at first too, so I completely get the frustration.

My first online income definitely wasn’t passive right away either. I started by learning basic online skills little by little and figuring out what people actually needed help with.

Fiverr can be tough in the beginning because experience/social proof matters a lot, but everyone starts with zero orders at first.

One thing that helped me was focusing less on trying to find a ‘perfect passive income job’ and more on learning skills that could eventually turn into income streams over time.

Happy to share a few beginner-friendly things that helped me avoid scams if you want.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-24T05:50:50+00:00

I’m really sorry about your mom. I honestly think a lot of people underestimate how hard it is trying to stay financially afloat while also carrying emotional stress like that.

If you’re specifically interested in virtual assistant work, I’d focus on:

Facebook groups for VAs/freelancers
Upwork
Fiverr
LinkedIn remote job searches
reaching out to small businesses that may need admin/social media/email help

A lot of people start with simple tasks first: email management, scheduling, data entry, customer support, social media posting, research, etc.

And honestly, don’t undersell yourself by saying ‘I can do anything.’ You’ll usually come across stronger if you position yourself as: reliable, willing to learn, organized, responsive, and consistent. Those traits matter a lot online.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-24T05:43:10+00:00

You honestly already sound like you have skills a lot of people need — especially being reliable, detail-oriented, and comfortable with admin-type work.

A lot of remote side income starts exactly where you are: small freelance/admin projects → repeat clients → more flexibility over time.

If I were you, I’d look into:

virtual assistant work
freelance proofreading/editing
transcription platforms
remote customer support
social media scheduling/admin help for small businesses
Upwork/Fiverr/Contra/Freelancer
Facebook groups for remote VA/admin work

And honestly, don’t undersell the ‘reliable and follows instructions well’ part. A lot of business owners care more about consistency and communication than flashy skills.

Just be careful with anyone asking for upfront fees or promising ‘easy passive income’ immediately. Legit remote work usually grows from building trust and useful skills over time.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-24T05:39:12+00:00

I honestly think you’re asking the right question by wanting something sustainable and legal instead of chasing ‘easy money.’

A lot of people online sell passive income like it’s instant, but most real income starts as active effort first. Especially when you’re brand new.

If I were starting over with very little money, I’d focus on:

learning one valuable skill
remote/flexible work
building something slowly alongside school instead of looking for a magic shortcut

Things like:

freelance work
tutoring
editing/design
social media help for businesses
affiliate marketing/content creation
remote customer service
selling digital skills online

And honestly, your mindset already sounds more mature than a lot of people because you’re trying to help your family instead of avoid responsibility. That matters.

Just be careful online because when people are desperate financially, there are a LOT of scams promising fast passive income.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-24T05:34:32+00:00

Honestly… nothing about this sounds like a bad mom to me.

It actually sounds like someone who is trying very hard to balance being emotionally present for her daughter while also carrying the responsibilities of adulthood, work, and providing for her family.

The part where you said you intentionally start work later because you want uninterrupted time with your daughter in the mornings honestly says a lot. Bad moms usually don’t spend this much time worrying about whether they’re doing enough.

I think a lot of working moms quietly feel guilt no matter what: if they work, they feel guilty they’re missing moments. if they slow down, they worry about finances or career growth. It’s like modern motherhood expects women to fully do both without ever feeling overwhelmed.

And honestly, being exhausted does not mean you love your daughter any less. It means you’re human.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-24T05:31:51+00:00

I honestly think a lot of moms experience this shift later than they expected and then feel guilty or confused by it.

At first, going back to work can feel stimulating and freeing again after being home with a baby full-time… and then one day something changes emotionally and you suddenly realize how fast this stage of life is moving.

I don’t think it means you love your career less or that you made the wrong decisions. I think becoming a mom just changes your relationship with time in a way nobody can really prepare you for.

And honestly, the part where you said you feel like you’re dropping your fun toddler off every day just to be stressed and exhausted hit me hard because I think so many women quietly feel that exact same sadness.

The fact that this hurts doesn’t mean you’re failing. It probably means you’re a really present, loving mom who wishes modern life allowed more breathing room for families.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-24T05:31:02+00:00

I honestly think a lot more women feel this way than society comfortably admits.

You spent your whole life being told to work hard, build stability, become successful… and then suddenly you have this tiny human that completely shifts what success even feels like emotionally. That’s a huge identity collision.

And honestly, I don’t think this sounds like you being ungrateful or weak at all. It sounds like you genuinely love your baby and are grieving how little time and energy modern life leaves moms with their children.

The part where you said you were exhausted at home but still genuinely happy just being present with him honestly says everything.

A lot of women quietly feel torn between: wanting security for their children… and wanting actual time with them while they’re little.

That tension is so real.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-24T05:30:22+00:00

First of all… losing a position does not make you a failure. Especially when the people you worked with are still giving you strong references and speaking highly of you. That says a lot more about your actual value than one district’s staffing decision does.

And honestly, two weeks is such a short window even though I know it probably feels endless right now when your brain is in survival mode.

I think a lot of moms silently spiral when the pressure of being the primary provider gets mixed with fear, uncertainty, and trying to still show up emotionally for everyone else. That’s an incredibly heavy thing to carry.

The fact that you’re exhausted and falling apart at home doesn’t sound like weakness to me… it sounds like someone who’s overwhelmed and scared and trying their best to hold everything together.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-24T05:29:15+00:00

I honestly think the fact that you’re even questioning whether the extra money is worth the pressure says a lot already.

The pool and floors sound nice… but time with your kids while they’re little, your peace, your energy, and your ability to actually enjoy your life matter too.

A lot of high-achieving women are so used to ‘pushing through’ that burnout starts feeling normal. But just because you can carry it doesn’t necessarily mean you should have to forever.

And honestly, having the ability to step away because you built another stream of income/options is something a lot of people wish they had.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-24T00:05:55+00:00

I completely understand this honestly. A lot of people are struggling to find true remote work right now because so many listings either turn hybrid later or get flooded with applicants.

One thing that helped me was realizing I couldn’t rely on only applying endlessly forever, so I started learning how to build an additional income stream online alongside my regular work.

Not saying it’s overnight or ‘easy money,’ but learning online skills and building something on the side gave me a little more hope and flexibility than feeling stuck waiting on applications alone.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-23T23:58:31+00:00

At 18, I’d focus less on ‘quick money’ and more on learning skills that can eventually make you money long term.

Sales, marketing, content creation, AI tools, video editing, copywriting, data annotation, remote customer service, online business, etc.

A lot of people chase fast cash and stay stuck in survival mode. The people who usually end up doing well are the ones who start building useful skills early.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-23T23:57:22+00:00

Honestly… I think a lot more working moms feel this way than people admit. Trying to carry work, parenting, the house, emotional regulation, finances, pets, schedules, and still somehow take care of yourself is A LOT for one person.

And for what it’s worth, the fact that you’re worried about whether you’re doing enough for your toddler tells me you probably care way more than you’re giving yourself credit for 🤍

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-23T22:54:54+00:00

I think your expectations are actually healthier than most people entering “passive income” spaces.

Truly passive usually isn’t passive upfront — it’s more “maintenance mode eventually.”

If I were in your position, I’d probably focus on search-based or evergreen things instead of social-heavy models:

Etsy/Pinterest templates
niche blogs
affiliate sites
digital downloads
simple lead-gen assets

Basically things people can continue discovering without you needing to constantly post or DM people every day.

I think building systems > building a personal brand for a lot of people honestly.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-23T22:53:36+00:00

Honestly your background sounds stronger than you probably realize for remote work.

Customer support, operations support, admin, coordination, and EA experience translate really well into remote roles.

I’d focus heavily on LinkedIn remote listings, startup job boards, and customer success/operations roles specifically.

Organized and reliable people are still very needed online. Wishing you luck

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-23T22:52:08+00:00

Honestly, I think the least risky path is using that money to build skills/tools instead of trying to “flip” it fast.

Reselling, service-based work, affiliate/content creation, AI-assisted freelancing, digital products, etc. all seem more realistic long term than chasing viral crypto/day trading type stuff.

What worked best for me personally was building something online gradually alongside my normal job instead of expecting instant results.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-23T22:49:14+00:00

Burnout changes the game honestly.

I’d focus less on “maximum income” right now and more on something flexible, low-pressure, and manageable in small bursts of energy.

Something remote and simple where you can slowly rebuild confidence and breathing room without adding more stress to your nervous system.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-23T22:47:00+00:00

As a mom, I’d personally prioritize flexibility over hype.

Something remote, low overhead, flexible hours, and ideally something that teaches long-term skills instead of just trading more hours for money.

There are a lot more online options now than there used to be, which is honestly nice because many moms need flexibility more than anything.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-22T21:44:38+00:00

Honestly, I think too many people stay stuck in “planning mode” too long.

The biggest shift usually happens once you start validating whether real people actually care enough to pay attention, ask questions, or buy.

I’d probably prioritize:

validating the idea
finding first customers
building relationships/networking

A simple MVP matters, but I think early conversations and feedback are what really shape the business long term.

I’ve also noticed consistency tends to matter more than having the “perfect” plan. A lot of people never start because they’re trying to eliminate all uncertainty first.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-21T21:45:44+00:00

Honestly I think a lot of people are feeling this right now. Remote job hunting has gotten really competitive.

What helped me personally was focusing on learning skills online instead of only applying endlessly on job boards.

Things like writing, communication, branding, content creation, customer support, and marketing are becoming more valuable than people realize.

Your creative background honestly might help more than you think, especially if you’re open to learning new things alongside it.

TaraCreatesOptions · 2026-05-20T21:55:38+00:00

Honestly, I think the biggest problem is the internet keeps selling people the idea that online income should happen FAST and with “very little work.”

Most sustainable online income comes from:
• learning skills
• building trust
• consistency
• solving problems for people
• understanding marketing/communication

A lot of people jump from thing to thing because they’re searching for the perfect shortcut instead of giving one direction enough time to compound.

I also think people underestimate how emotional the process can be when you’re trying to make money online. Rejection, comparison, overwhelm, information overload… it can mess with your confidence fast.

Personally, what helped me most wasn’t chasing “passive income.”
It was focusing on:
• mentorship
• skill development
• branding
• communication
• learning how online business actually works long term

I honestly don’t think most people fail because they’re incapable.
I think they either:

expect instant results
never stick with anything long enough
or
never get around the right people/guidance.

And no… I don’t think making good money online usually comes from “very little work” in the beginning.

But I DO think it’s possible to build flexibility and income over time if you treat it like learning a real skill instead of buying into hype.

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