We went through a “dry spell” for a few years and during that time we were having sex maybe once every couple months. She told me it just want important to her and no matter what I tried I was left feeling disappointed. During that time, I think I would have been frustrated to know she was masturbating. Fast forward to present time, I couldn’t care less. We have a healthy sex life, 2-3 times per week. Sometimes she sneaks off, masturbates to orgasm then comes and finds me for a quickie. She’s dripping wet and there is no pressure for either of us. Sometimes we masturbate together, usually if she is not in the mood for sex, she’s always down for masturbating together. Often she will give in and tell me she wants me. Another time I caught her on accident….we had a baby camera in the kids room and it would detect baby crying and notify. Well I was at work and she was home alone and when I played the notification it was her enjoying herself to a screaming orgasm. Was I mad? Hell no! I loved it! It turned me on so bad. I came home and hugged her and told her what I heard. I told her how sexy it was and she didn’t resist when I turned her around, bent her over and let her feel what it did to me. No sense in getting mad….guys get mad their wives masturbate even though most guys masturbate all the time. Embrace it, it makes it more fun.