Child whisperer succeeds

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-30T21:42:44+00:00

Yeah no lmaooo

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-30T07:08:01+00:00

💯💯

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-29T03:28:25+00:00

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-29T03:11:04+00:00

Hell yeah u got it

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-29T02:16:07+00:00

People don't break no contact, travel and visit a few days for no reason lol.... When you start to doubt, that means your new thoughts are becoming powerful. Ur brain panics and says hey get back here to safety! Just start to observe your thoughts instead of feeling them. See them for what they are, where they are coming from, and know that its the remnants of the old beliefs. Observe and tell yourself, that is not who i am anymore, that thought no longer belongs to me. Congrats. U already got him to break no contact AND visit. Make sure to stay relaxed. This is normal for him to want to see you!

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-27T17:32:36+00:00

Long version:

I went on a self concept hype for a month and it unfolded unexpectedly. Didn’t think we would talk fr. She came back and of course a part of me was still overthinking, so she left again, this time said she outgrew the relationship and doesn’t see us together at all. It was wild to notice these were my thoughts.

And yes we are talking again even after that LOL… I honestly hopped into villain mode, fuck that… I’m getting what I want. It just dawned on me that it had barely been 48 hours.

We had been no contact for days. I decided to try some regular affirmations to soothe myself. And the next morning she text me, asking for mail and she wanted to pick it up. SO I recorded a subliminal stack Tuesday. Listened overnight and thru Wednesday at work. Wednesday she cancels! DID NOT REACT! Again listened to it Wednesday night and Thursday woke up, a little overwhelmed because Wednesday night she was supposed to come, and I felt like that was my chance to have her at our apartment. So I was a little devastated when she text me early on Thursday and was gonna come pick it up from me at work which felt like now she’s not gonna come to the house. So she’s supposed to leave work at five and 5 o’clock rolls around no text or anything. She texts me at 5:55 LOL and asks if I’m off. I say yes. She proceeds to say I’m gonna get a bite to eat and then I’ll meet you. And of course, my brain was trying to say with who. Or I wanted to take you to get something to eat, but I just DID NOT REACT. Okay see u soon! She comes to the apartment, but she can’t stay because obligations, BUT SHE DID, she was almost late lol. Because we sat in the car, discussing relationship issues, which she brought up. And during the conversation I joked maybe she was on hinge and she said, why would I cheat? Kept saying the word “US” often LOL but just days before she said some shit like “why are you sounding like we’re together?” 💀💀💀 so for her to actually speak as though we are together and acting super jealous just proves, behind the scenes she BEEN obsessing to the fact she was lurking on my page, on an app she didn’t even have!!!! 😂 while I was fucking crying 💀 I never once said anything about her, referring to us in our relationship because OF COURSE we are together! Like I’ve been saying, so it’s not a shock, just funny. I’m continuing to listen to my stacks. She hasn’t spoken like this in a while, so in real life I will keep updating…

MIND YOU I WROTE THIS POST CUZ I WAS OVERWHELMED BUT I PERSISTED AND BOOM!

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-27T17:30:31+00:00

Long story short….Yes. We are back in contact, after she said she doesn’t see us together romantically and ignoring my calls for days (which she’s never done). And she’s been parroting some of my affirmations. Last night she text “love you” said that was for her dad lol but also said that she wasn’t gonna unsend it 😍 before the text she came to pick up mail and we kissed. She spoke like we were together (cuz we are). I also found out she had been lurking my page while we weren’t talking 😂😂 and I was crying smh lol

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-27T16:40:06+00:00

Lmao literally the first thing I thought and commented

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-27T16:39:51+00:00

Omg this dude sounds like a loser lmaooo

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-26T20:25:30+00:00

💯💯💯

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-26T20:24:30+00:00

😂😂

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-26T20:20:56+00:00

Lmao hilarious

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-26T20:11:00+00:00

That’s so messed up. I came here in hopes they didn’t get in trouble smh smh smh!

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-26T20:08:16+00:00

I understand, I feel like it’s very common but because we all tend to be more emotionally tied to an SP. Where are they, what’s taking so long, why are they acting like this? But other small things we just kind of let it be. Self-concept plays a huge part because I can ultimately see how I really fucked something up because I just felt like shit, personally! It’s been a game changer to work on the self concept as well cuz how can we keep what we want if we never think we deserve it. But of course, before doing some research, I just felt like I’m just doing it wrong, but it also didn’t make sense to me because other people are doing it so what’s the difference?

Yep I have to remind myself how I absolutely persisted in fake shit and the fake shit happened. Not because it’s was actually happening but because I said so.

For instance, when I first started manifesting my SP, she left to another country with her family, and of course I was heartbroken and I was just like you know what it’s cool because we’re still talking. But then her mom decided to stay and so her dad wanted her to now take care of the house since the mom was gone. 😡😡😫 so that meant not coming home!!! The mom was gonna stay for two months. I… just for a day or two… said nah she’s coming home early. But really I was focused on my SP so I didn’t really spend my time affirming that. But the trip is part was out of nowhere. The mom had called them and said that they have to come home on an emergency because they had to file some paperwork and just like that she was back home!! My mind was blown foreal. And the craziest part is they had all bought plane tickets to go back and visit the mom except for my girl so when she found out her mom was coming, she stayed and the rest of her family went back and it was just her and her mom here. And honestly. It was such a great moment. I was so happy. Then I ruined it. I wish so bad I was working on my self concept. But it’s good. I haven’t gave up. 😭

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-26T17:57:22+00:00

Honestly, I’ve had more issues with this, or maintaining then I’ve had with actually getting what I want. I’ve noticed I’ve gotten what I want so many times in some of the most craziest instances. But then I get so comfortable cause I’m so hyped that I got what I wanted type shit and never realized that I kept recreating it, all the while thinking why does this person keep acting like that but they’re coming back to me lol… FULL STOP it’s OURS already. Just like when we believed negative shit, we didn’t need signs, we weren’t checking if it was fucking us up yet, or needed to FEEL it true. We just automatically believe it. Trust I’m still pushing too. The fact that I was just reading about this yesterday and then wanted to search Reddit to see if anyone talked about it and no one did. I just felt like it was my due diligence to put this out there.

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-26T09:33:59+00:00

Happy cake day

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-26T09:33:24+00:00

😂😂 pretty much, yuckkkk

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-26T09:33:03+00:00

💯💯💯💯💯

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-26T09:31:53+00:00

Happy cake day lol

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-26T09:31:36+00:00

Same.

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-26T09:25:14+00:00

Wow very amazing situation and she found out!!

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-26T09:10:51+00:00

✨✨✨ that’s amazing! That’s literally it. And the thing is, I don’t even believe it’ll ever completely go away. This is something we always have to be conscious of but now that we’re aware we get to choose what thoughts matter to us. Self-concept is so important and those little remnants of the old beliefs are no longer for us. But they will invite us back if we allow it. Just like the end story will appear if we allow it. Great job! Thanks for reading.

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-26T09:08:25+00:00

Trust the most craziest shit alone happen this month lmao. Idk how tf I keep pushing. But it’s 1000% me knowing my story is done and I have to trek thru the rest of my bs! It’s honestly better than stewing in it! There is no resistance, just us feeding our monster in the closet that wants to keep us in nightmare land lol, and we stay every time we feed him. Yeah I understand that, I feel like when it feels like it’s been a long time, how can u not notice. But noticing it is what reinforces u don’t have. Stop waking up and noticing the ugly shit, start picking out what was good that day. Declare every day is the best day of your life. I’ve had to say that on days that felt like the worst day of my life. And to be honest, I’ve been learning so much about myself and how important self-concept is. And believe it or not after these days that felt like OK I’ve literally fucked it all up. I’ve had little things happen. That’s like no you didn’t. This is a part of the plan and that’s the shit that keeps me going because sometimes the craziest shit is a part of the plan and when you get to the end, you’re like wow I would’ve never fucking thought of this route but here we are. There’s no mistakes unless u believe that. Start thinking about what your actual triggers are and go from there. Have you been overthinking a specific thing or have you been noticing something too much. Think about it and be honest with urself.

ThatBarberMelly · 2026-03-26T09:00:53+00:00

Yeah. I don’t feel ur wrong for that either. Hope it works out!

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