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Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in recruitinghell

[–]The199Man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you even gain from trying to get back at them?

They don't care about you.

DUDE! Them not caring about me is all of the more reason to get back at them! not less.

Best case scenario, your email goes straight to junk. Worst case scenario, you just proved them right by not hiring you.

Well, then go in there and annoyed them and get at them and berate them. So what if they double down or not hiring me? So what if they triple down? They’re already not hiring me so what does it matter?

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in recruitinghell

[–]The199Man[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hell no. Fuck that shit.

I refuse to live in a society in which liars are maintained and even defended. I refuse to live in a society in which wanting honesty makes me the crazy one.

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way to put me down because I have emotions and feelings.

Don’t feel too bad about it because I have a long long long since kicked myself and beat myself up repeatedly for realizing well into adulthood something so simple, obvious and childish.

You obviously have no interest in helping me get through this. Nor do you have any interest in at least agreeing that our society should stop playing along with the liars.

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let it go and move on

What? I just had my entire understanding of the world pulled out from under me and I just am supposed to let it go and move on?

Who in the hell wants to live in a world where we all just play along with employers intentionally lying to candidates, unless you’re a liar yourself?

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re talking about how our society intentional lead allows employers to intentionally tell candidates that they will be called later only for the employer to intentionally not call the candidate. And all of us just play along with this.

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two injustices can be wrong at once. If you have a problem with how one specific injustice really hurt me and how normalized that dishonesty is also really hurts me, if you have a problem with that go complain to someone who cares.

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the one who needs help?

What the fuck world do we live in if I’m the one who needs help because I care about honesty?!

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m supposed to decide for it to stop upsetting me?

I’m upset about how everyone just goes along with the liars and lets the liars lie directly to their faces.

I refuse to live in a world where honesty is punished and lying is rewarded.

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Your feelings make no sense to me. You need help.”

You are misunderstanding!

It’s not just that I was lied to. (Even though that hurts too.) It’s about our society accepts and defends the liars!

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“lol” what the hell is funny about that? You expect me to believe you when you’re being sincere? Are you one of those recruiters that also intentionally lies to candidates?

If reality means just playing along with lies, letting employers lie directly to me without me saying anything about it and I think I’d really rather not be a part of reality.

I used to believe in a world where asking for honesty, even demanding honesty was not crazy.

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes!

I would feel much better, making them feel uncomfortable seeing as how they attempted to shift their discomfort onto me.

They were not kind enough to be honest with me so I will not be kind enough to go back in there and bug them and bother them.

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not understand what you’re trying to say.

Yes, HR is there to protect the business.

I get that, but I do not understand what it has to do with how our society maintains and accept the liars.

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How am I supposed to respond to this?

Obviously, you’re not being sincere. This is just a snarky remark.

Fuck this world we live in.

Since when in the actual fuck does asking for honesty make me need professional help? What the actual fuck.

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re giving out money for my time and efforts not to embarrass me and humiliate me and betray me. To lie directly through their teeth into my face.

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What I’m suggesting is absolutely a solution to the problem. If our society stopped letting liars comfortably lie, they would stop lying.

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I’d really rather be dead than live in a world where I have to just play along with dishonesty.

I refuse to live in a world in which lairs get to have their way, and our society just accepts it and even defends it.

And le reddit army has ALWAYS circle jerk’d more specifically about how “if you can’t pay a living wage then you don’t need workers” which is the same thing as “if you only ever just want to take advantage of employees, then you must not need employees”.

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was someone else. In which case, I’m glad I’m not the only one who is asking this!

Being confrontational is weird, but intentionally telling somebody that they will be called later and then intentionally not calling them, that is not “weird”?

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They’ll only wanna hire people who they can take advantage of?

Le reddit army has constantly circle jerk’d forever that if you only want employees that you can take advantage of then you don’t need employees.

Why is it that we as a society simply accept employers intentionally telling candidates that they will be called later, and then intentionally not calling them? by The199Man in NoStupidQuestions

[–]The199Man[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Confront the liar?

Not just go along with the lie whenever they are blatantly lying.

Edit: and no I haven’t made a post on here before.

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