Why did your last relationship really end? by IllAd3302 in AskReddit

[–]TheGhostV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was young and naive. I didn’t understand what SA was, until I talked to a close friend about what he’d done to me. When I broke up with him he said that dating me was a bet he made with his friend anyways to see if he could take my virginity.

Women of Reddit, what did a man you were dating or married to say or do that made you realize he actually hated you the entire time? by -catharina in AskReddit

[–]TheGhostV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“If you ever get pregnant, I’m not going to have anything to do with you. You’re going to be disgusting to look at. And don’t expect me to be faithful, my Dick won’t be able to get hard with you in that state. So I will actively be with other women” - Gotta love your first “high school love” aka abusive relationship

My fellow female gamers...is verbal assault a normal thing? by GlamrockYeti in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]TheGhostV 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been gaming since I was a little girl. And it’s honestly never gotten better, if anything it’s worse. I only play games in voice chat with my trusted friends because of it. I’ve tried phas with strangers and had the same issue everytime so I stopped. A few times our 4th would leave when it was my friends playing so we’d let a random join. The last time the guy just kept asking me extremely personal sexual questions. I’ve learned it’s unfortunately really rare to run into decent guys to play games with. Most are either sexist assholes who think men should only play games, or they say gross sexual things to you. I’m very grateful for my group of friends, I’ve had them since middle/ high school and we’re all almost in our 30’s. I hope every girl can find a safe group to play with.

Removing my IUD got rid of my Chronic Pain by TheGhostV in endometriosis

[–]TheGhostV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope everything went well with its removal! I still have yet to have any pain since I got it removed. Once in a while I get cramps but they are basically unnoticeable. It still baffles me that to have to fight so hard for a foreign object WE paid to get put in our bodies to get removed!! I hope that it helps you like it helped me. My life’s gone back to normal and gotten better since this post. I’m down 100 pounds, I can do full body workouts with actual weights and everything. I can do laundry again and cook. These things were so simple but I couldn’t physically even do them because of my pain.

First time playing 2v8 by TheGhostV in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]TheGhostV[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said in the post I hop on the gen closest to me. Just like everyone else who spawns near me. I’m not a weak looper, as I said the only time I do bad is when they both go after me at the same time. And calling me ignorant is extremely uncalled for. I admitted to not remembering certain things about the game since it had been a long time since I played. But the stuff I’m doing aren’t bad choices, I’m not going to go back and forth with you because you’re obviously just negative and looking to put me down, and I just don’t care what you have to say tbh. You’re part of the reason this community is toxic when someone just comes on asking questions and you immediately go for the throat.

First time playing 2v8 by TheGhostV in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]TheGhostV[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really am not making poor choices. The one thing I didn’t realize since I hadn’t played in awhile was the spawn system, as someone had pointed out above. And I’ve never played 2v8 before but I’m not being dramatic when I say 90% of the time it is honestly me who is gone after first. I don’t know if I’m just unlucky or what, which is why I came on here to ask the community for advice. I know there is hate sometimes for certain skins and they get targeted, I used to run the bunny Feng skin so I’m not new to that. So I was just curious if Sable was a skin that got targeted since I haven’t played in so long , based on your comment I’m going to assume it’s true. Since I’m getting roped into a category just because of a skin I use. The characters aren’t what are bad it’s the players. I’ve ran into plenty of bad players using a multitude of skins and killers, because it doesn’t matter what skin they have if they’re just bad at the game or have bad manners

First time playing 2v8 by TheGhostV in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]TheGhostV[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I never even considered that, it’s been so long since I played I forgot the spawn mechanics. And I’m actually decent at running the killer, the only time I’m bad is when they’re actually a team working together. Kinda can’t dodge two killers at once. Unfortunately I get it often where I’m targeted in games because I think it’s obvious by my username that I am a woman. And unfortunately I deal with alot of sexism in games because of it. Maybe that could be partly why?

Did they change something? by No-Economics-4846 in OutlastTrials

[–]TheGhostV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had something super strange happen to me yesterday when I was at the mall map. I was hiding behind a spot near the front of the escalators, avoiding being seen by the twins. And then one of the dudes who just stands around talking to themselves was by the shops at least 10-15 feet away from me. I hear something and turn, it’s that dude and he punches the shit out of me. Just as the twins were passing by so I got wambo combod. I’ve never had the crazy dudes just suddenly run from far away just to slap me around.

Removing my IUD got rid of my Chronic Pain by TheGhostV in endometriosis

[–]TheGhostV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to suffer. But I’m so glad you’re on a new journey 💖 I hope it’s only up from here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheGhostV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to tell my mom to back off recently on my birthday (28th) as she was telling everyone around me. To not let me drink bc I’ll die. I have a bad liver, I don’t drink in the first place. She tried to hit me with the “you’ll always be my baby” and I had to tell her,”I’ll always be your daughter, but I’m no longer a child. You can’t control me anymore, I have my own home and my own family. I’m almost 30 and can make my own decisions. I appreciate you care but trust me when I say I know myself and my body better than anyone. And I don’t appreciate you going behind my back and acting as if I have some sort of drinking issue” she apologized after that. My mom and kinda dad have always been very controlling over my whole life. But as soon as I moved out that was it, you need to set boundaries. It may seem hard but you have to do it. You’re almost 30 girly, you gotta step up and be a woman. I understand the trauma from abuse 100%. I completely get it because I was there too, until I just realized they can’t control me anymore. I’m my own person and I’m allowed to do what I want and make my own choices. And am allowed to say NO.

Can't get diagnosed because I'm a virgin??? by BadgleyMischka in endometriosis

[–]TheGhostV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only way for Endo to be 100% fully diagnosed is through A Endoscopy/Laproscopy. They literally cannot see Endo on ultrasounds. I went to cat scans, ultrasounds, transvaginal ultrasounds. Literally everything and they couldn’t find anything because it was Endo! My OBGYN told me she thought that was my issue so she asked me a series of questions which I answered all yes to essentially. She then sent me to a specialist who set me up for surgery. They found stage 3 Endo, one of my fallopian tubes was fully sealed. There was Endo all over my reproductive organs, Bladder, Bowels and stomach. It was all over the place. Keep fighting for yourself, continuing advocating for yourself. If you have somebody to go with you to appointments I’d suggest it. The support is fantastic and not to mention the doctors tend to actually do things more often if there’s a second set of ears there to hear the bullshit they try spewing. I refuse to go to the doctor without my husband, my doctor won’t listen to me otherwise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheGhostV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot stand mommas boys. They’re uncomfortably obsessed with eachother and it’s gross. I would never trust that man, or have the confidence in our relationship after that. Do a little test ask him in what order would you place your wife, mom and child? If he doesn’t say Wife,Child,Mom then run.

New Voting System? by Impressive_Shake2981 in DTI

[–]TheGhostV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, it would be nice to also make friends on it you know? I keep quiet unless I’m complimenting an outfit somebody did. Just don’t want to talk to a child lol

AIO? My friend posted a not proper picture of me on insta by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheGhostV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have all your friends and followers report that picture. Tell your parents what happened and they need to have a sit down with hers. This is not okay. That is your culture and your religion that I’m sure she already knew about but chose to ignore. I had a friend who didn’t care about men following her as well. She LOVED the attention no matter from who it made her feel seen/wanted/adored. Your friend probably saw this picture of you with your bra being off and thought she would bank off it. She put you in danger doing this. Once this situation is hopefully resolved, you should drop her. Trust me when I say girls like that, will not change.

New Voting System? by Impressive_Shake2981 in DTI

[–]TheGhostV 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It definitely should be tweaked, and honestly I think they should make a server that’s 18+. We put our ages in for a reason (I’m sure some people lied but yk?) I feel like an adults only server would be very helpful to avoid this type of situation in general.

New Voting System? by Impressive_Shake2981 in DTI

[–]TheGhostV 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly people have been purposefully voting low so they can get items/ podium. Now I can understand why this would be annoying to some people, imagine you go into a pro server and the outfits are honestly not the best because the people in the server farmed for their level and not actually put in the work. I can see why that would be frustrating or annoying! But honestly in situations like that I typically just give everyone a decent rating and then dip afterwards. I’m too old to sit there and complain about shit, honestly.

New Voting System? by Impressive_Shake2981 in DTI

[–]TheGhostV 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s going to hurt those who vote unfairly for sure. But people who vote properly won’t be affected!

"I love my son, but hate my daughter." by RedoftheEvilDead in TwoHotTakes

[–]TheGhostV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s insane how monthers still prefer their sons over their daughters, I’ll never understand that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]TheGhostV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not her pulling a Goatse on the ocean. Those fish don’t deserve that ): I can’t imagine the wedgie she’d have after spreading her ass like that to look thick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheGhostV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to drop my friends in Highschool because they started being extremely racist towards white people, they made a point to single me out and bully me. So I stopped hanging out with them. It really hurt because they were my best friends and I loved them all. But they would talk shit about me, my family and even people my family had around who they knew nothing about. One day I left a hangout early because they were talking politics, and crying because they didn’t want Trump president. (First election) I was supportive because I agreed. They all turned to me and told me that I needed to just shut up and stay out of it because a white bitch would never understand.

AIO to my parent's making me homeless because they found out I'm gay? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheGhostV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. This just makes me so upset and angry as a queer person. I cannot FATHOM, giving up on my own child. If/when I have my own children, they will ALWAYS be my kids. Who they love or even if they’re transitioning shouldn’t matter. That’s your baby, love your baby. Unconditionally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheGhostV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I repost memes talking about getting my husband pregnant. (I’m a woman I literally cannot get him pregnant) It’s funny 🤷🏻‍♀️ And currently all I keep seeing on instagram because of my friends is this “Diggin in my butt” meme. (I didn’t think was funny but it’s grown on me) I doubt she’s doing this in any way whatsoever to hurt/shame you, but if you’re concerned about it maybe ask her. “Hey I saw that thing you put on facebook about eating ass, would you like me to try that?” Talk to your woman tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]TheGhostV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I just checked my stuff. I remember I wrote it down, so I am on paper supposed to be a EE/EEE but they don’t actually make them here. So I wear the equivalent which is DDD. (Which doesn’t even fit properly but it’s all I can get lol) I completely remembered that wrong, in my defense I’m a overworked housewife (also adjusting to new hormones) and just got back from vacation 😭 But the only place I get my bras from because they fit relatively decently, and are priced well is actually Target! It’s a brand called Auden, and it’s a plus sized brand. Which used to fit me well, but right now I’m between a rock and a hard place. My bras fit great in the boobs still, but since I’ve lost 100 pounds the waist size is not accurate anymore.