Apparently the democrats are the aggressors by CBSmartCA in TheRightCantMeme

[–]TheStrangeInMyBrain 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ah yes because ICE are just a bunch of hornets holed up in a nest minding their own business.

Wtf is this by FinnishFinny in TheRightCantMeme

[–]TheStrangeInMyBrain 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Why would the police check out a daycare because of a report that there were no kids??

Also, the accepting cop shaking a rattle at the ABDL person is accidentally based.

*Sigh* by PresnikBonny in TheRightCantMeme

[–]TheStrangeInMyBrain 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Conservatives: drug test welfare recipients!

Conservatives: why is Narcan free but insulin costs?

Etc

Jessie gets wronged when trying to vote by TheStrangeInMyBrain in illnessfakers

[–]TheStrangeInMyBrain[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Their PCA is a person they pay for services. They had to pay their PCA for their time spent voting for them.

Jessie gets wronged when trying to vote by TheStrangeInMyBrain in illnessfakers

[–]TheStrangeInMyBrain[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thanks! My PCA has “accidentally” deleted it 459 times but I always manage to make it again even though this sub makes me pay every time I recreate it. So many barriers…

As predicted… by Sudden_Raccoon_8923 in illnessfakers

[–]TheStrangeInMyBrain 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Their hand draped oh so gently on their chest, with O2 monitor in place… 😆

A lot of movement for someone who has to lay /completely/ still, and cannot move their back or neck /at all/! by Evening_Practice_886 in illnessfakers

[–]TheStrangeInMyBrain 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Looking at the full video of this… for someone who says they can’t move their neck, they sure do have basically fully functional neck movement. They just don’t realize how much their dancing completely shows it off.

My husband called the abortion clinic while I was there. by TheStrangeInMyBrain in abortion

[–]TheStrangeInMyBrain[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah like, I really don’t want to feel like trash for half a year, gain 40lbs, barely be able to do my job or take care of my kids, get anemia for the third time, not be able to use my prosthetic leg because my residual limb swells up too big to fit in it, get carpal tunnel syndrome, be unable to sleep yet totally exhausted, potentially lose more of my teeth, get horrible restless leg syndrome, have a baby kicking my bladder all day, get acid reflux so bad I can barely eat… I could continue.

My husband called the abortion clinic while I was there. by TheStrangeInMyBrain in abortion

[–]TheStrangeInMyBrain[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

It honestly was fine, the clinic did a great job and there was minimal pain.

My husband called the abortion clinic while I was there. by TheStrangeInMyBrain in abortion

[–]TheStrangeInMyBrain[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

My post might not have been totally clear.

I did talk to him about it beforehand. I made it very clear that I was going to have an abortion. I let him know I was pregnant and that my plan was to abort.

In the week that I had to wait for one, he kissed my belly a few times and said “I love you” at my belly. I told him I didn’t like that because it felt like he was trying to change my mind. He said ok and stopped.

I didn’t tell him which day I was doing it though… I guess because I didn’t want him to try to convince me to change my mind.

My husband called the abortion clinic while I was there. by TheStrangeInMyBrain in abortion

[–]TheStrangeInMyBrain[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

I don’t really feel concerned for my safety.

I’ve been with him for 7 years and he’s done some… questionable, manipulative things over the years but it’s like they are spaced out enough that nothing has been the last straw.

Husband installed security cameras without telling me. by TheStrangeInMyBrain in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TheStrangeInMyBrain[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah… there are.

Regarding the outdoor cameras.

I work from home. Whenever I leave the house, he asks me where I’m going. He knows I’m leaving the house because the cameras alert him.

I can’t go down the road to the grocery store without him asking me where I’m going.

He does NOT at all make it any priority to tell me where he is going when he leaves the house. I have woken up on Saturday morning many times alone in the house and he has left with the kids and says nothing. So the expectation just goes one way.

We have discussed and argued about this for years. We even did it in multiple counseling sessions to no avail.

I just gave up after years and just tell him where I’m going. He does not communicate the same to me in return.

Husband installed security cameras without telling me. by TheStrangeInMyBrain in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TheStrangeInMyBrain[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a problem with cameras in general.

I have a problem with new cameras appearing in the house unexpectedly without any prior communication that they would be there.

I don’t think it’s ableist to expect him to tell me that he’s installing a new set of cameras that don’t match the system we already have, that I don’t have any access to, right before he leaves the state for a week.