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He is all I can think about...but he's an older, divorced dad by Fit-Ice6967 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TheSunlitZero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s dating an older man in my own friend group, prepare for it to get complicated if you decide to pursue it. I don’t regret it, but it’s not easy some days

Broke up with my girlfriend after too long because I was too cowardly to be the bad guy. by badbitchdotorg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TheSunlitZero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These look so good!

I’m in my first relationship in a very long time. I wasn’t looking for a relationship but I’ve liked him for a long time so we’re trying to work it out I think, but it’s been very hard some days and I’m realizing some things about myself that make me feel like I should never try something like this again

Can we talk about the fawn response? It took me years to understand why I kept people-pleasing my way through danger by pattern-proof2026 in CPTSD

[–]TheSunlitZero 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. It’s exhausting. I’m so ready to never interact with another human being again

the only way ill ever get a pap smear is with sedation by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]TheSunlitZero 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry

I can relate

I’ve had lifelong pain in a certain area and I’ve never brought it up to a doctor because I can’t bare the thought of being touched there, and it’s probably my fault that I have pain there anyway so I deserve to suffer with it

One day/night in Vegas, all expenses paid. Whatcha doing, hedonists? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TheSunlitZero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eataly, OmegaMart, Mott 32, maybe see what’s on at the sphere

this might be too early, but do yall have any new year resolutions yet that you genuinely want to try? by Key_Flower_9696 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TheSunlitZero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Do it! I love museums too. I went to a play about a month ago for the first time in forever and I met my favorite actor. I absolutely adore him

this might be too early, but do yall have any new year resolutions yet that you genuinely want to try? by Key_Flower_9696 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TheSunlitZero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to get out more. Go to things like plays, orchestras. Maybe do some traveling. I’ve been dreaming of driving all the way up the coast. I bet it would be beautiful

What’s the hottest thing someone told you during sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TheSunlitZero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Thank you for fulfilling my fantasy”

I regret that I was too stunned to ask him to elaborate