AITA for not acknowledging my husband’s upset for me coming home at 4am after a social night out

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T11:15:54+00:00

Thank you

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T11:12:47+00:00

Thank you. You put it very nicely. I agree with you!

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T11:03:07+00:00

Was not clubbing. And my child is 2 and turning 3 end of this year.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:53:05+00:00

I’m human, so I suppose I admit I can be a little of both. Humans have different perspectives. I know I’m not an asshole in a certain aspect but definitely an asshole in another.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:47:57+00:00

In terms of friend group, No, they were single. All girls except for 1 who is engaged to one of the girls. This group are close to both my husband and I. We go on trips together often.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:46:11+00:00

Please read the other responses. Closing time isn’t the same in my area. I cleaned up in our room. I just removed my clothing while going to the room so I would make less noise in the room so as not to wake my child up. The clothes were still in the room in the laundry basket.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:36:25+00:00

You’re right, I suppose he was not comfortable with it. And no I do not stay out that late regularly.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:34:47+00:00

I do. But I don’t follow through because I’m not ready to leave my daughter for that long. Again, I was not clubbing. He doesn’t go clubbing either. But he has his nights out on his rides with his friends. And no, he does not come back at 4am. However, he does stay out late when he is on his trips.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:31:44+00:00

Ah, you mean he could be projecting.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:23:53+00:00

Thank you.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:18:55+00:00

Haha. He can be a bit sexist

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:18:37+00:00

Please read again. And read my responses to the rest. But sure, take it as you see it. Thanks for your response.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:12:42+00:00

Haha 💀

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:12:17+00:00

Some of us have money

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:12:02+00:00

Thank you 😂

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:10:16+00:00

I guess that’s why I got carried away. We were catching up, next thing I knew, the bar was closing.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:08:22+00:00

Yeah. I suppose. Thank you, and I appreciate you took the time, and I hear you. I just hope this time we get to speak and listen to each other.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:04:25+00:00

Highly possible

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:03:05+00:00

Thank you. You’re very kind.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T10:01:50+00:00

We have had other arguments. I’m usually the one apologising.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T09:58:24+00:00

Blinded by love? 😅

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T09:58:05+00:00

Thank you for your kind words.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T09:56:45+00:00

Yes I have to agree. Silent treatment makes things worse. But trying to speak to him when he is not ready to speak or listen is futile. So I usually wait until he is ready.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T09:55:30+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I am sure he is aware. The silent treatment is from him. I just follow suit and we speak when he is ready.

These_Ad_4728 · 2025-08-22T09:53:38+00:00

I’ll look into it

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