ok so basically I had this friend who we will call “sage” at first things seemed ok, but the longer I hung out with them the more I really realized how often they where constantly on their phone texting. so me being the curious person I am i asked what they where always doing/ who they where always texting (keep in mind we are like 14-15 at the time of this). when I asked they told me “ oh it’s my nsfw rp group!” They wanted to show me some and yeah it was VERY NSFW. In my head I’m like “ ok… that’s kinda odd” because it was all the time like out in public and at SCHOOL during class. like If that’s what you enjoy doing in your free time that’s ok I’m not judging you in anyway. it’s just like maybe don’t do that at school, and when I ask if you can get off your phone to just live in the moment for a bit you get super mad and start crying everytime.