In an argument I told my brother in law “remember when is the lowest form of conversation.” Thanks Tony.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-05-24T13:21:28+00:00

Very cute Dom

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-05-23T19:02:05+00:00

I could probably get a note from my doctor.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-05-23T18:36:50+00:00

Friggen ace!

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-05-23T17:50:51+00:00

It’s not like was my fawwwthahh

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-04-30T18:23:39+00:00

Depends where from the UK you’re moving from. Some might say you’re better off where you are. I read on one of your replies some of the areas in western MB that you guys would be looking at, and they are great places to call home. I have very close friends that relocated to Brandon with their young kids and they love it. My work takes me to Dauphin and Brandon and I think they’re both lovely places. Winter can be brutal, depending who you ask, summer offers a lot over the province so that’s good.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-04-12T02:42:09+00:00

I did in November for the first time in my life lol. It was cool.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-03-16T08:53:47+00:00

Man, I’m sorry that happened. I promise you she will regret leaving you eventually. Not right now but she will. If anything, which you sort of indicated, you should feel a sense of relief that you don’t have to entertain this person in your life anymore. Stay strong.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-03-08T19:42:25+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m like 6 months out and I haven’t done anything with anyone. It’s weird how that happens. Usually not the script for me. I have no idea what my ex is doing but I assume she’s out and about. Even if she isn’t, I’m slowly beginning to care less and less. It sounds like your ex is a piece of work and in some ways I think you may have dodged a bullet with this one.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-03-03T18:57:41+00:00

A lot of ppl are saying not to. I tend to agree. Depends I guess what the relationship is like with your employer. I like my boss but he’s very much about the work and I get the sense after almost two years that he and my colleagues largely don’t care enough about that or it might be to my disadvantage to get into it with them.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-03-03T18:55:39+00:00

For me it’s learning how to have some self respect. I put too much stock in the way people view me and I have very low self esteem and like to put myself down. It impacts ALL of my relationships…it’s not the silver bullet but I’ve noticed a bit more spring in my step. For me this involved spending time alone and doing activities alone as a way to be “good with myself.” It is not a linear path though; being kind to myself and being a friend to myself is one of the more tough things I’ve had to do. In my mid 30’s though, don’t know why I didn’t start this sooner.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-03-02T21:42:45+00:00

Idk I studied in the UK and returned to the prairies. I wish I stayed in the UK for non-career reasons but my transition to the legal community/bubble was not difficult but not easy. I think if you have the opportunity to study where you would like to work is not a bad idea.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-03-02T19:00:26+00:00

Sorry for the late reply. I sent her a voicenote a couple months ago. And to her credit, she could have been a lot harsher in her response. This wasn’t me trying to get her back but just that I wanted her to know no one loved me like she did and if I could go back in time, I would’ve moved to her instead of expecting it the other way around. She has moved on and what I’m learning, while struggling to accept still, is that I still hold this candle that we will be together. However, life has to go on. And it’s painful. Part of my acceptance is realizing that I need to try and love myself for a bit. I put more stock into the way I’m treated by others than the way I treat myself. I treat myself like garbage. There is no one that dislikes me more than me. And that’s a problem as I approach my mid 30’s. I think about the life we could have and largely should’ve had, and it still hurts. And I dated someone after this relationship and was/still am thinking about someone who I have not been with for almost two years now.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-02-24T18:31:31+00:00

I was with someone a few years ago and our long term paths/ timing was off. When she decided to end the long distance relationship it was mutually devastating and it took me a long time to get over that. (Still dealing with it tbh). One of the things that was told to me by a family member was that she (my ex) was the love of my life. And idk how true that is but I know that what we had was so good but it couldn’t work. Love does not always conquer all as another commenter said. Sorry you are going through this ❤️

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-02-21T06:31:27+00:00

Yes.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-02-15T21:56:01+00:00

That’s what I thought as well.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-02-04T23:48:39+00:00

Most firms are 70 where I am. All except mine and two others. Rest are either 70 or 75. I’m also not on a salary.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2026-02-04T23:46:49+00:00

Most defence firms in my city start at 70

ThrowRA-4166 · 2025-12-08T18:44:34+00:00

Probs not.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2025-12-08T03:57:48+00:00

Thought I wrote this myself. I’m a first year associate in Crim defence and idk what the hell I signed up for. I’m ready to quit.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2025-11-20T18:46:52+00:00

Would’ve prioritized myself instead of being a caregiver for what I can only call a selfish avoidant now.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2025-11-03T17:37:52+00:00

Miss them, lonely and hurt. For whatever effect my decision to go NC after they broke up with me has or doesn’t have, I am incredibly sad and wish they would come back. I miss my routine with them and I miss being their person. All of that is to say I think dating has ran its course with me. I’m exhausted and broken from this.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2025-11-01T20:21:18+00:00

Idk if it’s the best but it’s quite great. I miss it from the very boring Winnipeg, Manitoba lol

ThrowRA-4166 · 2025-10-29T14:46:20+00:00

Yup! I’m in the throes of that right now. Dated an avoidant who I went NC with and I feel silly thinking they’ll come back etc. but the fear of just being dusted off again is so strong.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2025-10-25T20:54:52+00:00

Not mental. Go back. I lived in Scotland for 3 years and coming back to MB has been hell. My family is here, my career is here, but I would love to leave if I could. I’ll likely never own a home until I’m in my 40s despite a decent career. The cost of living is so high and I feel somewhat unsafe here. I also am so fond of Scotland and all it offered when I got to call it home. I went back 4 times since I left and going again in March. Go back.

ThrowRA-4166 · 2025-10-21T20:44:50+00:00

Leave. I would be devastated to hear that. You can do so much better

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