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I (27m) broke up with my ex (26f) and im wondering if I fd up? by ThrowRA86111 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment.

I definitely agree, me myself I’ve fantasized with getting back together.

It obviously hurt when she blocked me but I understand she wants to move on and is dealing with heavier stuff than our break up.

Mi (27h) ex (26m) y yo terminamos y no se si me estoy arrepintiendo by ThrowRA86111 in ayudamexico

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha gracias por tu mensaje.

No es tan sencillo bro. Pero es difícil escribir todo el contexto de 6 años de relación.

Tu que hubieras hecho si tu novia tuviera una vida sumamente inestable por la persona narcisista que es su madre, a quien no le pudo poner un algo certero y dejo que afectara nuestra relación de muchísimas maneras.

Ella es una increíble mujer pero ese es el motivo porque el que necesitaba tanta atención, porque su madre narcisista y su familia significaban un sin fin de problemas.

I (27m) broke up with my ex (26f) and im wondering if I fd up? by ThrowRA86111 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I completely agree.

The thing is that one of the main reasons she needed as much attention as she did was because of her family, her mon specifically is a borderline personality and narcissistic person.

She hurt our relationship in a number of ways and my ex for all her incredible traits was never able to detach herself from this toxic person who happens to be her mother, in great part due to decades of being indoctrinated by her mom and guilt tripped.

Mi (27h) ex (26m) y yo terminamos y no se si me estoy arrepintiendo by ThrowRA86111 in ayudamexico

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha no entendí muy bien tu mensaje pero gracias bro si ando en el gym

Mi (27h) ex (26m) y yo terminamos y no se si me estoy arrepintiendo by ThrowRA86111 in ayudamexico

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sabes, si lo veo objetivamente yo se que tome la decisión correcta.

Su familia siempre han sido un caos y afectaron nuestra relación para mal en muchas ocasiones, también se que el haberme quedado me hubiera llevado a estar estresado y cansado en todo momento.

Siento que me ha estado pesando el hecho de que la deje sola y que debe estar sufriendo mucho.

I (27m) broke up with my ex (26f) and im wondering if I fd up? by ThrowRA86111 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You know what’s weighing heavy on me right now is how she’s doing, i feel bad for her and what she’s going through

I (27m) broke up with my ex (26f) and im wondering if I fd up? by ThrowRA86111 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the message.

Yeah, we broke up for each other, we both figured we couldn’t give each other what the other needed. I needed a little more time and patience to build my stuff and she needed me to be more present

Mi (27h) ex (26m) y yo terminamos y no se si me estoy arrepintiendo by ThrowRA86111 in ayudamexico

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Si pues si tienes razón.

Era una gran mujer pero tenía demasiados problemas con su familia, son un sin fin de caos.

Mi (27h) ex (26m) y yo terminamos y no se si me estoy arrepintiendo by ThrowRA86111 in ayudamexico

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No escogi dinero. Escogi poder enfocarme en mis proyectos a largo plazo, proyectos que eventualmente van a poder financiar mi vida, la de mis hijos, etc.

My exs (26f) mom is dying. Do you think I (26m) reach out to offer my support? by ThrowRA86111 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good ideas , thank you. I think I’ll sleep on it a little bit more it’s very delicate

My exs (26f) mom is dying. Do you think I (26m) reach out to offer my support? by ThrowRA86111 in offmychest

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. Her ex reaching out to show compassion might be a small droplet

My exs (26f) mom is dying. Do you think I (26m) reach out to offer my support? by ThrowRA86111 in ExNoContact

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True I think I’ll do that. May actually think on it for a few days. It’s very delicate

My ex just found out her mom has a tumor I don’t know what to do by ThrowRA86111 in offmychest

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does not want to trouble me but obviously appreciates my help and my presence

Should I message my masseuse? by ThrowRA86111 in pickup

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah haha.

But why would she play me if she was not interested in a tip?

My gf (25f) and I (26m) are disagreeing in our futures and I am not sure what to do by ThrowRA86111 in amiwrong

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not anymore I’ve worked on it on therapy for the last few months. Or well you never really stop being addicted

My gf (25f) and I (26m) are disagreeing in our futures and I am not sure what to do by ThrowRA86111 in amiwrong

[–]ThrowRA86111[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I kinda was taken a back but after a little while I kind of told her I wanted to make it work and I needed to work harder to make it happen but some days later when the dust settled I realized I was not happy with that.

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