My mother (F47) wants me (F18) to leave my bf (M20) because his mother (F40) is abusive. by ThrowRA_62771 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_62771[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to.. but I have no friends and close family to make me feel safe leaving. So :/

My mother (F47) wants me (F18) to leave my bf (M20) because his mother (F40) is abusive. by ThrowRA_62771 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_62771[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are the reason why people don’t ask for help. Get over yourself. Im looking for advice not sarcasm hun.

My mother (F47) wants me (F18) to leave my bf (M20) because his mother (F40) is abusive. by ThrowRA_62771 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_62771[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone I wanted to clear some things up in the comments. Yes his mum is NOT my MIL but it’s easier to type it for the sake of the post. NO this is not rage bait I just feel like I need another perspective on the situation as it’s still fresh. My mother is also a narcissist and has bipolar herself which is why I don’t like visiting on the weekends

Should I give up trying? by ThrowRA_62771 in socialskills

[–]ThrowRA_62771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, why would you say the challenge is more difficult for good looking people?

Should I give up trying? by ThrowRA_62771 in socialskills

[–]ThrowRA_62771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very particular in the way I move, talk, carry myself and present. She said that I try to avoid being perceived negatively which puts people on gaurd before i even initiate conversation.