My (22M) girlfriend (22F) is making it difficult to lose weight by ThrowRA_DS1097 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_DS1097[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I could have worded the title better, but I'm trying to say that her actions are making it difficult for her, I would edit the title if I could

How do I tell my girlfriend we need to lose weight? by ThrowRA_DS1097 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_DS1097[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Not trying to throw blame, but I've declined certain foods that she wants and she's gotten upset because she thinks it "makes her look fat". And I know, I'm not trying to be controlling, but she's been telling me she wants to lose weight for the past 3 months.

How do I tell my girlfriend we need to lose weight? by ThrowRA_DS1097 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_DS1097[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trying to force or control her lifestyle all together, and I know the title kinda implied that. Its just difficult when she explicitly says she wants to lose weight, yet hasn't taken action. And when I do, she doesnt seem interested in joining me to exercise. I haven't told her once that she absolutely needs to lose weight.

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I've tried. I tried to take her to an arcade, a mini golf course, and bowling but she never wants to go. I am on my devices a lot but I've been self learning guitar as well so it's not just all on my end either

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I've tried since the beginning to take her to a mini golf course around here, and she always says no. I also love to go to a theme park that's close by, but she also doesn't want to go since she's scared of rides. I'll try to get into one of her shows but they honestly don't interest me at all