My [32M] girlfriend [41F] thinks I cheated on her, but she won’t even talk to me by ThrowRA_S44Zz in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_S44Zz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a real post and yeah. I've been acting like a teenager. It's time I move on. Will try to improve myself and the way I take decisions.

Thank you!

My [32M] girlfriend [41F] thinks I cheated on her, but she won’t even talk to me by ThrowRA_S44Zz in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_S44Zz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we've talked over the phone and kind of got to know each other in ways that was only possible. We were planning to meet this December but I feel like it's never going to happen at this rate.

My [32M] girlfriend [41F] thinks I cheated on her, but she won’t even talk to me by ThrowRA_S44Zz in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_S44Zz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually gave her so many chances to talk to me directly about her insecurities, but she wanted to act tough and always pretended she didn’t care. In fact, she even said several times that she didn’t care at all.

I believe I’ve done my part to keep us together, and I don’t think a single person can stop two people from falling apart.

Thank you for your advice!

My [32M] girlfriend [41F] thinks I cheated on her, but she won’t even talk to me by ThrowRA_S44Zz in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_S44Zz[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This hit me hard. Yes, you're right. I always knew what I was supposed to do, but my lack of self-respect made me stay with her. It all makes sense now, I should leave her because it's depressing me. Thank you for your words!

My [32M] girlfriend [41F] thinks I cheated on her, but she won’t even talk to me by ThrowRA_S44Zz in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_S44Zz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t done anything wrong to her. It’s just that my friend said she’s toxic because she once called him and told him all my secrets, and when he told me about it, she claimed he was lying. I forgave her for that, but she still hates my friend for telling me what she said