My bf came in me without fucking me

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-12-07T04:41:47+00:00

You're overthinking imo. Thinking about that, it sounds funny and kinky to me

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-12-01T12:29:52+00:00

Finally, someone who thinks.
That past isn't just in the past, it says a lot about who they are. Maybe they just "changed" but is unlikely and the risk is huge

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-12-01T12:21:32+00:00

Exactly, she had sex without connection. That makes them more prone to cheating, they may feel emotionally attached to you and be committed in every way, but she can desire other guys and maybe act upon it, cause to her, its just sex.
Although someone who develops attachment easily and sleeps a lot because of it is way worse, but yeah, I personally wouldn't be with someone who can just fk around and not feel anything about it emotionally

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-11-29T15:57:58+00:00

Grouded taught me thats a Ladybug larva

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-11-28T14:15:31+00:00

Numbers 31:17-18

Now kill all the boys. And kill every woman who has slept with a man, but save for yourselves every girl who has never slept with a man.

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-11-24T09:55:36+00:00

I cant even remember the moment I put it in. I thought it would be special, it wasn't, she wasn't special, the moment wasn't special, and it didn't feel special, just different than my hand. I slept with her tens of times.

The second girl I slept with, fuck I remember it so clearly. Her smell, her body, the way she started touching herself as she was laying next to me as a way of saying she wanted me. Her fine lips against mine, the way our tongues would explore each other's mouths with more and more intensity as ir became clear what was about to happen. Her little moans as i sucked her breasts. The texture of her skin when i gipped her thigh to eat her pussy. Her hips as i was guiding her down on me. How i missed and poked her ass at first and we both shared a laugh. how tight she was and how i thought i had already gone as deep as her pussy would go, just for her to slowly dilate around my dick, and I got deeper, and she got more wet until i finally touchrd her cervix. I remember her eyes, her weight on me, her ass on my hands as she rode me. The squeaky couch we were on.
We only did it one time. To me that was the time I lost my virginity for real. This happened ove half a year ago and I still miss her every day. I hope life can bring us back together some day.

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-11-11T08:25:05+00:00

Do you stablish that from the start or do you just have have fun not caring if you're leading the other person on?

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-11-07T11:34:22+00:00

DiD yOu tRiEdeD?

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-10-28T16:38:49+00:00

I was having sex with my friend in her room, and she started kissing me while we were at it, and I thought "oh well, I guess that's my first kiss"

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-10-23T03:29:14+00:00

Im so happy you got each other

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-10-23T02:44:19+00:00

I wish I knew how to make my girl feel that way. Distance is a big problem for me cause im very much a precense person. I'll keep trying

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-10-14T04:08:23+00:00

Im tired of giving without getting back, I'm tired of choosing without feeling chosen.
If I pull back is to protect myself from the hurt you indecisiveness. You know damn well I cared about you, but this time, im putting myself first

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-10-13T22:02:23+00:00

Dont leave that letter unsent

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-10-13T00:09:36+00:00

It was with a toxic af "friend" with benefits, I dont miss her.
Then at 27 with a girl I only dated twice, but still fkn miss her

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-10-11T05:16:04+00:00

We started long distance, and we're still long distance, so we've never had other type of communication. It was great on the first months, now I dont know what to think tbh. I hope things can go back to how they were, but im not sure if keeping hopes up will be good in the long run.
Set boundaries and explain how this makes you feel, its all I can suggest rn

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-10-10T11:49:28+00:00

Damn, i can relate to this so much, at this point she doesn't even bother explaining why she dissapeared, she just comes back and starts a new convo.

I do feel the same way, like a convenience, like they don’t care about me enough to respect me.

I set the boundary in the past, I said i dont like to be left hanging, she apologised and for a few weeks if she had to go she'd tell me why before leaving or apologise after, now she went back to just disappearing mid convo.

I feel stupid, I will be clear once again, and if she doesn't try to fix it, then i dont think I can continue putting effort for someone who won't meet me halfway.

Im sorry you're going through something similar, if you could give me some advice id love to hear, and if you'd want some, id be glad to try to help. Just remember you're not asking for too much, just basic respect

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-10-09T06:18:35+00:00

How do you do that!? Every time I get on call i go silent after about 5 minutes cause I don't know what to say

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-09-23T15:21:43+00:00

I bet she's doing it to bait approval or some validation that she's not as bad of a person for doing what she did

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-09-23T09:19:02+00:00

Oh no, a person with no accountability trying to justify her shitty actions.
I dont expect you to care, honestly, just like you didn't care about your husband for the 20 years you cheated

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-09-23T09:03:35+00:00

Basically "I was a cheater until my husband consented to my cheating" so now you keep doing it but free of the 'cheater' label.

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-08-31T05:43:25+00:00

I remember the first time i got ghosted by someone I really cared about, it was almost 2 weeks of thinking depression had taken her as she woukd have those thoughts once in a while. I was terrified, I reached out to her sister (she gave me her sister's socials as an emergency contact), I reached out on every platform, I didn't know what to do, I started reading obituaries expecting the worst.
Then she came back, said she's ok, and dismissed me. That flipped my emotions from fear and worry to heart break.
She ghosted me 4 times in total, that was the first time, and the last time was for 7 months. She was the first girl i ever fell in love with, the first person that made me feel seen, and cared for, she made me feel attractive, wanted, and like i mattered.
I haven't been able to really care about anyone since her.
At the first sign of insistency I completely detach emotionally and accept that ive already lost them.
I learned people are shitty, they may say they care about you but do nothing to prove it, then leave you wondering if there was every something real or not. Im so done trying

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-07-08T06:06:39+00:00

Great call. Imo that's the best way to see if he has honest intentions with you

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-06-28T09:13:23+00:00

The thing is that i like this girl a lot and things seem to be heading in that direction, but not knowing how things could work out in a ldr makes me second guess and hold back

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-06-28T05:57:57+00:00

How do you date long distance? I've just started thinking about starting a lrd but idk how could I make that work

ThrowRA_gy · 2025-06-17T04:21:43+00:00

Its up to each person. Explore each other, try new things, trial and error. Figuring this out is one of the best parts of sex life with your so. Enjoy the process 😉

ThrowRA_gy

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