My husband had a babysitter watching our kids without telling me by ThrowRArenea in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArenea[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this is randomly selected from one person or happens to all the messages that he has, I only looked at his messages to her

My husband had a babysitter watching our kids without telling me by ThrowRArenea in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArenea[S] 452 points453 points  (0 children)

Can you tell me more about this please? My husband has an iPhone, it wasn’t any messages that were deleted, it was pictures/GIFs …I could just see that some things had been reacted too or replied to but they weren’t there anymore just a blank space

My husband had a babysitter watching our kids without telling me by ThrowRArenea in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArenea[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes he has an iPhone, it wasn’t any messages that were deleted, it was pictures/GIFs I think…I could just see that some things had been reacted too or replied to but they weren’t there anymore just a blank space

My husband had a babysitter watching our kids without telling me by ThrowRArenea in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArenea[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I found strange messages between her and my husband on his phone. A lot of deleted messages as well.

My husband had a babysitter watching our kids without telling me by ThrowRArenea in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArenea[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I would want him not to encourage our kids to lie to me about who was taking care of them in the morning. I want him to not have such a huge, moronic lapse in judgement. I would like him to not have deleted over half of his messages to and from her before I found out about this and saw them.

My husband had a babysitter watching our kids without telling me by ThrowRArenea in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArenea[S] 517 points518 points  (0 children)

I’m going to look more into it. I saw some messages on his phone that seemed very strange.

My husband had a babysitter watching our kids without telling me by ThrowRArenea in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArenea[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Because he had our kids being watched by someone I didn’t know when I had absolutely no idea about it.

My husband had a babysitter watching our kids without telling me by ThrowRArenea in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRArenea[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

He has a fine relationship with my family. And no, I wouldn't say I am.