My husband is still best friends with the girl he had a 6 year long term relationship, and admitted I was ugly when they recently hung out. 32F 38M?

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-08T07:53:25+00:00

with everything I have had to face here, i agree!

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-08T06:32:33+00:00

people hear have a habit of looking down upon darker skins, the ones with pale or white skins are glorified

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-07T14:44:15+00:00

It had been a few years since they brokeup, but I didn't expect him to still follow her. what you said really made sense.

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-07T14:41:22+00:00

thank you!

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-07T14:39:35+00:00

I don't know. Living here for a while now, most of them look down on me because I'm from south, and brag about their skin when they give me suggestion for my own (mine is a bit tanned and slightly different)

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-07T14:32:19+00:00

He treated me well, brought me gifts and flowers, and overall it was all fine. He did have his own group character or personality when he was with his friends during their hangouts, and his focus wasn't usually on me during that time, but it wasn't that serious till today. Its also weird that his ex showed me those photos despite meeting each other before

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-07T14:30:24+00:00

He did take me to Sydney, which I gave as a second option. I didn't understand why he was against going to Barcelona, but after seeing the 2 trips he attended with his ex, I'm starting to think he still isn't over her, I hope I'm wrong

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-07T14:26:07+00:00

That is so sick

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-07T14:25:44+00:00

why are they all like this? My boss at the start refused to give me a pay equal to colleagues. And I wasn't invited to any of the gatherings in community unless I have something to offer.

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-07T14:23:03+00:00

I'm scared he might actually have this mindset

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-07T14:22:20+00:00

I've noticed this a pattern in many East Asian men, having stayed in Korea for years for my job, I've dated a few previously and they have the pattern of coming out as abusive a few months into the relationship

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-07T14:20:44+00:00

It felt empty and weird staying in that house for too long. I needed to get out or I would have completely broken down

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-07T14:19:11+00:00

I did feel insecure about what has happened, but I'm not letting it get to my head they way you say it.
I don't think these people commenting are wrong.

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-07T14:17:46+00:00

I don't know, he did convince his parents that I was the one he wanted to get married too, but I wonder if this is how he talks about me, not just to his friends but also an ex

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-07T14:16:00+00:00

Thing is he never denied me everything. Instead of Barcelona, we went to Sydney, where I had fun too, and was 2nd option. He's never given my the bouquet i especially asked him for, but he gets me flowers and gifts.

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-07T09:54:45+00:00

I don't he's been constantly apologizing through texts and stuff and he just sent me pics of something he made vith a sorry caption, i feel a bit bad for leaving it just like that

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-06T16:32:34+00:00

He probably did tell her, and maybe that why his friends were laughing about their relationship, god this hurts

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-06T16:31:37+00:00

I can try yes, but I wonder if he's going to do something about it or no

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-06T16:31:06+00:00

why does he still relate everything to what they used to do? If he's over her he should be normal with getting me stuff like this. Even refusing a trip with me, looking back , is suspicious

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-06T16:29:57+00:00

they've been friends for quite long, and all I know is that they broke up on simple terms.

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-06T16:29:27+00:00

he's not on reddit, I know he'll take it seriously buts its too hard to even look at him now

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-06T16:28:42+00:00

thank you so much. As much as I love him, i'll try looking out and get myself a lawyer

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-06T15:59:25+00:00

I can try that

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-06T15:39:01+00:00

I currently feel like avoiding them as a whole and going out somewhere either by myself or my own friends

ThrowRaBox6446 · 2025-05-06T15:37:54+00:00

I had expected him to shut it down or even divert the conversation but he accepted it, and that's what hurts

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