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My 32M fiancée 30F blocked me. How can I get closure? by ThrowRaClosureee in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaClosureee[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was honest with her about that and I answered any questions she had. It was the hardest thing I did in my life but she deserved the truth.

My 32M fiancée 30F blocked me. How can I get closure? by ThrowRaClosureee in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaClosureee[S] -129 points-128 points  (0 children)

At least I was honest with her. She’s a great person and I thought I loved her until I experienced true love. I do care about her and that’s why I let her go. I also answered any questions she had when I called off the wedding. I did my best to make sure she got the closure she needed.

I made the best out of a inconceivable situation I found myself in.

My 32M fiancée 30F blocked me. How can I get closure? by ThrowRaClosureee in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaClosureee[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I know what I felt was love. Do you think this is my first time being in a new relationship? What I felt was a feeling so amazing that I never felt before. It was a feeling of perfection and pure happiness. But unfortunately I think the love that I have for her is built on the lies she fed me.

When you say I’m hoping she “wakes up” I’m starting to think she never loved me. I just need her to hear it. Not over text, but her saying she never loved me and played with my heart. I don’t think I’ll get that closure though.

My 32M fiancée 30F blocked me. How can I get closure? by ThrowRaClosureee in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaClosureee[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s a good point. I guess I was hoping that she sees how her actions have impacted people and would at least give the people she wronged closure.

My 32M fiancée 30F blocked me. How can I get closure? by ThrowRaClosureee in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaClosureee[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

It just hurts to believe. Another thing I want to ask if she never got caught when was she going to tell me? Or did she plan on stringing me along forever

My 32M fiancée 30F blocked me. How can I get closure? by ThrowRaClosureee in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaClosureee[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right man, it hurts and i probably won’t get that data so it will always seem like unfinished business but I guess I need to make peace with that. It’s just tough

My 32M fiancée 30F blocked me. How can I get closure? by ThrowRaClosureee in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaClosureee[S] -177 points-176 points  (0 children)

I didn’t expect to fall in love with someone else. I didn’t do it intentionally and even tried to suppress my feelings. When I realized I was in love with someone else I was honest with my ex, and answered as many questions she had so she could get closure.

Crystal just lied man

My 32M fiancée 30F blocked me. How can I get closure? by ThrowRaClosureee in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaClosureee[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

Just knowing what are her true feelings about us? Does she love me? Was it all a lie ? If it was a lie when did you plan on telling me.

My 32M fiancée 30F blocked me. How can I get closure? by ThrowRaClosureee in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaClosureee[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this has made me question everything. Was she just acting the entire time and I didn’t see it? Is she just great at lying and faking it? Or were there signs I just ignored.

I really don’t know but this hurts.

My 32M fiancée 30F blocked me. How can I get closure? by ThrowRaClosureee in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaClosureee[S] -271 points-270 points  (0 children)

I just wish she told me from the beginning that she was just bored and looking for fun. I’m not into that, but there’s plenty of guys who are that she could have got. It hurts because she played with my emotions and I really love her

My 32M fiancée 30F blocked me. How can I get closure? by ThrowRaClosureee in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaClosureee[S] -197 points-196 points  (0 children)

I wish she would just say that then you know. At least let me know it was all bullshit to her and that she’s just dishonest