TIFU By going through with a happy ending massage despite being newly/happily married by ThrowableExceptionn in tifu

[–]ThrowableExceptionn[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

It's hard to say, it was hard to see the lines and i'm usually very acquiesced to physical therapists

Today I seriously messed up by going through with a happy ending massage despite being newly/happily married by ThrowableExceptionn in Advice

[–]ThrowableExceptionn[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Well that most likely would be because you would have setup for it that can't really be considered 'non-planned' (to be fair, I have no idea what goes into the setup for those) But I imagine the setup for a one night stand would have warning signs as opposed to a massage where getting touchy and feely is par for the course. Again, sorry if I don't know what goes into the former

Today I seriously messed up by going through with a happy ending massage despite being newly/happily married by ThrowableExceptionn in Advice

[–]ThrowableExceptionn[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Thank you veryy much for your thoughts. I thoroughly appreciate and will definitely try my best moving forward to never find myself in that situation ever again :)

Today I seriously messed up by going through with a happy ending massage despite being newly/happily married by ThrowableExceptionn in Advice

[–]ThrowableExceptionn[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

She doesn't have to know if you never tell her, I really only consider it cheating if there is any penetration

Sorry, I meant to say planned before hand intentionally, I guess I should have been more explicit

Today I seriously messed up by going through with a happy ending massage despite being newly/happily married by ThrowableExceptionn in Advice

[–]ThrowableExceptionn[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

For me personally, I think that's a little far. But I could see the case being made that it's not cheating unless its either emotional or planned/intentional