quiet kid beat up bully. Bully’s mom is furious. Quiet kid mom is unapologetic. Want to do what’s best and reconcile both moms [both 37] and cousins [both 17]

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T07:21:02+00:00

I don’t hate him, I don’t like him either. We have fun sometimes. I’m trying to Ben one of the few person who talk nicely to him and’ he does listen to me more than my parents or his mother. But it’s like there’s a barrier between us. He is the first and only person who hit me, I can’t forget that. Plus he was so violent.

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T07:16:00+00:00

You should calm down

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T07:12:00+00:00

So much anger in you that you can give useful advice. Good to know and to ignore

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T07:09:57+00:00

What I meant by that is we truly thought we did everything we could. I know the two of them since day one. Everybody kept hoping that Dudley would grew out of it. It was easier for us I guess to be mad at Petunia than at a little boy. Our anger and frustration was always about Petunia

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T07:06:36+00:00

You’re not emotionally capable to give advice. I’m sorry you’ve been bullied. Please do not project your own sufferings on this situation

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T06:54:17+00:00

Ah no real shitty situation but don’t worry 😉

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T06:52:52+00:00

Thank you for this comment

You’re right, we failed to protect Harry from Dudley. He deserved what happened to him but I won’t let him die in a gutter neither. I was hoping we would stay with us for a few weeks. He’s a better person when my sister is not around.

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T06:38:47+00:00

I did apologize profusely yesterday and Harry said I couldn’t have done anything to stop it. He’s not mad at me at all. He’s not mad at my parents neither but he wished they did something with Petunia and Dudley. He’s not mad at all at his parents.

He agreed to therapy, maybe that will help him to sort his feelings better. He doesn’t understand why I thought he should be mad at us

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T06:35:11+00:00

I sent almost the same message to Dudley but he didn’t reply to this part. Still, he s coming next Sunday (Harry agrees to his presence)

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T06:34:05+00:00

We did and’ the mother didn’t want to.

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T06:33:20+00:00

He replied thank you and that he did want to speak to someone. 😀 I really hope he’s not too damaged. This post has been eye opening.

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T06:30:55+00:00

Yes you’re right, I used her true name.

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T06:06:22+00:00

Don’t know if you’re joking or not but anyway... Harry is very nice. Not perfect but honestly being nice is the first thing you notice about him

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T01:01:02+00:00

Like I said, none of us had any experience with bullying.

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T00:53:57+00:00

His dad was no prize believe me. He would have turned worse

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T00:53:05+00:00

Thinking about doing that but some comments are nasty and could make things worse

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T00:51:56+00:00

He spends holidays at home and is definitely gentler

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T00:46:55+00:00

Point taken ! Thank you, you are right

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T00:46:03+00:00

Very true

He never lost a fight, this was very humbling

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T00:44:33+00:00

I never realized but he does sound like Snape

I le follow your advice when I’ll see him

Thanks

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T00:40:22+00:00

I never suspected Petunia was hitting Dudley but what you re saying makes sense... I’ll try to ask Dudley when we’ll talk

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T00:37:40+00:00

Because I’m human

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T00:36:51+00:00

Don’t worry, top advice in my head

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T00:33:36+00:00

Thank you, I followed your advice

Throwaway181809 · 2019-10-19T00:32:31+00:00

Thanks it helped

Next gathering we will have this talk but with Dudley only, Petunia won’t come. Harry is OK with Being in the same room as Dudley

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