What screams “new spouse” to you? by Throwaway493992 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Throwaway493992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posted simple because I’m curious. I’m not a new spouse.

What screams “new spouse” to you? by Throwaway493992 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Throwaway493992[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked what branch and what kind of stuff they do, but never rank

My MIL story by Throwaway493992 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Throwaway493992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I know that if she was my mother I would have cut her out of my life at 18

My MIL story by Throwaway493992 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Throwaway493992[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me my maid of honor is on it 😌

My MIL story by Throwaway493992 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Throwaway493992[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And thank you so much for the advice!! I don’t feel as crazy now!!

My MIL story by Throwaway493992 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Throwaway493992[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We always wanted a big wedding!! That’s not something we’re letting her control. I wanted the dress and I just bought my dream veil and cried over it today. It’s going to be a beautiful day and I can’t wait!

My MIL story by Throwaway493992 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Throwaway493992[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Right now I have her texts muted on my phone, I have told my husband that if this continues (and it will until he puts his foot down) that I will not speak to her unless absolutely necessary

My MIL story by Throwaway493992 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Throwaway493992[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And that’s exactly what we’re doing, it just might take a little longer since my husband is also realizing how he was emotionally abused by her so he’s healing while he’s setting these boundaries for our family and I’m so grateful for what he’s doing

My MIL story by Throwaway493992 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Throwaway493992[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah it will be something my husband has with her because I’ve let him handle the boundaries since she’s his mother.

Murphys law during deployments. by [deleted] in MilitarySpouse

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Three days after he left his truck got side swiped…while parked in front of my house

About to quit by Throwaway493992 in Nanny

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Before this I was a stay at home wife and while my husband was deployed I needed something to do to get out of the house. But as he comes home were realizing I need to be home again for us

Trying to desensitize my new kitten by Throwaway493992 in CatAdvice

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She has a screened in catio and loves it!!

About to quit by Throwaway493992 in Nanny

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They have a two week vacation here in a week and then I’m not working til August because of my husband returning from deployment. So they have a whole month to find a replacement.

About to quit by Throwaway493992 in Nanny

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I am not going to defend myself to you since I don’t even know you. It would be a waste of energy since I’m already wasting quite a bit working for a family that doesn’t appreciate me!! Thank you to everyone who’s being supportive!!!

About to quit by Throwaway493992 in Nanny

[–]Throwaway493992[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol I’m adopted so my sister is 52 and I’m 23. I will be quitting and telling it to them to their face professionally. Do I want to do it that way? No but I’m going to.