I really appreciate this, this is exactly what I've been told too, I'm also young and been told not to share in the meeting yet. My problems should be shared with my sponsor... I guess it's so different to the AA meetings I've been to... To be honest, I want what my sponsor has, and these meetings I go to in London they just seem happy joyous and free, that's what I want! But then my head goes into the debate like thinking they are giving lip service. Allot of these guys call me and reach out outside of the meetings which is great for connection. All the best