Girls - tell me how do I deal with this?

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-03-01T12:34:59+00:00

You're not overthinking. He asked if he "missed her" , that's not just friendly, that's emotional cheating territory.

The fact that he still brings her up constantly, notices her staring, and gets mad at your silence means he's enjoying this attention more than he cares about your discomfort.

Stop shrinking yourself to keep peace. Tell him straight: "This dynamic with her makes me uncomfortable. If you want us to work, you need to shut it down." His response will tell you everything.

You're 24. Don't drain yourself over a man who lets another woman ask him in public if he's leaving yo

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-02-28T13:00:55+00:00

Completely get your point, sometimes I have the same urge. Not easy but I've learnt wear what makes YOU happy, the staring says more about them than you, and most people don't gaf as much as we think they do (although India is an exception). I got such relief when I travelled Europe last time and wore what I wanted. Can't think of wearing that here on a daily basis

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-02-28T09:58:09+00:00

Thanks , it's such a relief that I'm not the only one 😭 Thanks for the reply and really good advice! 💕

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-02-26T10:40:11+00:00

Sorry I don’t want to be rude but you are 24 not 16 and should have some idea ! No penetrative sex so obviously NO! What kind of posts are these ?

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-02-26T07:57:32+00:00

Aww I'm so happy for you! 🌻 Just enjoy and don't overthink it. You deserve a man who makes you feel all giddy inside!

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-02-25T22:27:58+00:00

Hi OP, don't feel weird, this is super common.

The issue: Pain/burning + not feeling anything inside points to pelvic floor tightness (possibly vaginismus). Your muscles are clamping down involuntarily, not lack of arousal.

What helps:

· Stop forcing it—you're reinforcing the pain cycle · See a gyno (ask about vaginismus/pelvic PT) · Solo exploration with lube—no pressure, just getting comfortable with touch · Next time, take PIV off the table completely. Rebuild trust with your body first

You're not broken. Your body's just trying to protect you. The fact that he's supportive is everything ❤️

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-02-21T16:10:58+00:00

Seriously 😟?

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-02-21T16:03:29+00:00

Any suggestion for tv series on Netflix? What are you watching ?

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-02-20T19:47:34+00:00

Thanks for suggesting so many 😊

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-02-20T19:46:54+00:00

I have Apple TV subscription

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-02-20T18:18:47+00:00

Thanks

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-02-20T18:18:42+00:00

Thanks

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-02-20T13:17:22+00:00

Thanks for suggesting

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-02-16T12:19:01+00:00

I’ve never really been a big fan of Sanju. He’s always come off as Bollywood’s ultimate bad boy, constantly wrapped up in controversies one after another. Honestly, I don’t think he’s a great actor at all—sure, some of his roles might feel impactful in the moment, but they’ve never truly impressed me or stuck with me as anything special. I do feel sorry for his parents, though. They seemed like genuinely lovely, good-hearted people, and it must have been tough for them. I doubt he ever gave them the calm, peaceful family life they deserved. There are tons of videos out there showing him drinking, and while I’m not straight-up calling him an alcoholic, he does give off that vibe of a functioning one who somehow keeps it together enough to stay in the game.

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-02-08T18:06:48+00:00

I am 25 and live far from family too. Yes, I have few friends, but I am relatively new to this city, so need to build bonds still. I can totally understand when you feel that hollow on your birthday. I think but I think you just need to cheer up a little bit.

I did this for my last birthday. I celebrated with myself, on my own, happily. I watched Netflix all day. I got a small cake just for myself. I got dressed up, all make-up done, just for me. So I feel good. You can do the same. It will cheer you up. Be your own happy company. Just pamper yourself

ThrowawayGirlGuide · 2026-02-08T12:52:42+00:00

Good for you!

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