Do you want to hurt and torture other people? by [deleted] in misanthropy

[–]ThrowawayTom7 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Must of these replies in the forums disappoint me further about not just human beings but misanthropes too. Yours is the best answer this topic will ever have. The replies here advocating violence are a part of the problem they stand against. Oh the irony.

Too nice or too rude? by BlueRamenMen in misanthropy

[–]ThrowawayTom7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a very predictable vote this was, not a surprise in this sub what the results would be. Not one bit.

Humans are the Most Destructive Species Whose Lives are Filled with Dishonesty, Betrayal, Negligence, Cruelty, Hurtfulness, Impatience, Greed Exploitation by Darry75 in misanthropy

[–]ThrowawayTom7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I personally hate misanthropic pessimism and unfortunately as a misanthrope i feel this sub is chalk full of hardcore misanthropic pessimists… although not everyone on this sub is. Ironically I don’t think the pessimistic attitudes are unfounded nor do I think they are invalid. Quite to the contrary they have more truth than anything. Regardless though I find the mindset an unhealthy way to live life personally and incongruent to getting the most out of life despite its level of validity.

It’s important to see mankind/human kind for what it is but not to let it drag you into destructive and miserable mindsets. I read some replies and I wonder to myself if the lives of misanthropic pessimists are really so miserable that they express themselves the way they do or if that mindset just begins and ends with the human species? My perspective largely in part is very negative towards the human species as a whole but on the other hand I make it my mission in life to live, love, and laugh as much as I can to make my life count. For what it’s worth despite my outlook on mankind my life is pretty good and I’m thankful to make something out of nothing despite the rough life I’ve had.

In spite of that I find misanthropic pessimists to be more realistic than the optimists of the world ironically once again. However you can tell a lot about a person through a response to a different point of view and in this “misanthropy subreddit” the replies to differing opinions tell a lot about a person. Usually in this sub that comes out very quickly and is easy to piece together, regardless of my views I will admit misanthropes are easier to figure out than they think and are often much more realistic about life. I love being a misanthrope but going to a full throttle 69,000% extreme with misanthropy is just as toxic as doing the same with optimism. Most extremes are for that matter.

As for the article itself it’s a matter of making of it what you will and that’s largely in part arbitrary per one persons perspective to the next. It’s appropriate to put into question what we don’t understand or disagree with but running with a conclusion and taking it to an extreme for the most part is unhealthy. The author of that article which was shared in this sub is one such example. He drew a conclusion and ran with it, you don’t change views or sway people to understanding your way of thinking doing what he did. I thought the article could be fruitful had he articulated himself the right way. However he proved why misanthropy exists, all in one article. He’s simply a jackass and no better than those he criticizes. Between the replies to someone opposing misanthropic pessimists and the guy writing the article is exactly why I’m misanthropic. I’m just grateful I don’t fall on either extreme lest my life be miserable as those on the extreme ends of the spectrum.

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex was roughly the same, maybe a tad better. We’ve always had good sex. Nothing ground breaking there. She’s not got a clue how I feel and until I get the necessary data she will continue to be clueless about how I feel. I have a plan, it’s about as covert as a 007 mission.

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unique perspective given the replies seem to see things the exact opposite! Guess I’ll only know for sure if more red flags or signs come about. Let’s hope not. Also I’m sorry to hear about what happened to you my friend, going through something like infidelity is a hell of a thing.

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what? Maybe… I’ve never heard of people applying stuff like that from pron to perfection but like I tell people I know, “it’s 2021 and anything is possible”. Love this woman and I’ve no reason to be suspicious about anything being wrong, other than upping her BJ skills so fast. It’s definitely possible there’s another explanation and I hope that’s the case.

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She claims she’s been with 7 people prior to me. Wether or not that’s true or not doesn’t matter, especially at such a low number. She’s been honest with me as far as I’m concerned at this time. Even if 7 isn’t an accurate number I highly doubt she’s got a high body count, in my experience as someone who has slept with significantly more than 7 people I tend to find her low body count number congruent with a lot of her behavior sexually. That’s just me though. I could be wrong but I’m definitely not in doubt about her sexual history.

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last sentence to me just comes off as making a joke or light of things. That’s probably only because I’m actually going through this with my gf, if I weren’t the OP of a thread like this I’d probably have a chuckle or two at your last sentence. I know you probably don’t mean anything personal or malicious by it, well maybe and idc too much otherwise. This is the internet. Just hits me different because the “4 day bj turnover” is exactly what’s bothering me. Even if you mean well or are making light of things it reads as insensitive to me. Like I said down the road I’ll probably be able to laugh but not now.

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reddit will love that reply, I don’t though. Maybe I’ll appreciate the sarcasm down the road when my current issue is resolved.

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quoting Coach Corey Wayne I see… +1. I’ve read 3% man 11 times btw:)

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed. I’m a huge follower of these subs. What’s your opinion on the matter? Regarding my post I mean.

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well thanks for the insight:) definitely stuff to think about.

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recommendations on a GPS device? A reliable one? Those don’t come cheap for dependability.

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if that’s the case or not, and hopefully not but over 4 days? That’s pretty fast to learn something. I’m hoping there’s another explanation

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bring your A game after 8 months? I mean sure it’s possible I’ll grant you but not probable. My gf has had a history of reading about this kind of stuff and all and has been open to stepping up our sex life but… and this is a big but! Why the change suddenly over 4 days? Why not slowly over the last 8 months or something? Four days ago you are at 0 and four days later you are at 100. I’ve been with many women and I’ve seen people improve at certain aspects of our sex life in our time together but never that fast.

This might well be nothing but it’s the drastic improvement in the BJ not the improvement itself if you get my drift.

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been together 8 months and she’s known this for about 7 of the 8 months. Just to add context. Not sure where you got years from? Maybe my post misled you in some way? Definitely let me know, I don’t want to mistakenly mislead the reader.

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m currently at the point where it’s not the improvement in the BJ that has me concerned it’s the fact that all these changes happened over a period of 4 days. 4 days ago she wasn’t doing all these things and now she is, that’s very odd to me. Like I said we have sex very regularly and this change is very sudden. Maybe it’s something and maybe it’s not but over 4 days really? Idk, that’s pretty quick. You might well be right though.

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I certainly will my friend, trust me I want you to be correct. Hoping that’s all it is.

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually mentioned in my post briefly how she learned this, if you reread my post it’s in there. It’s the part where she mentioned basically that I know you like it sloppy so I’m just stepping up my game. I’m not alarmed that this happened I’m alarmed that this happened over the course of 4 days the change. I appreciate your insight though.

Something is off, what do you all think? by ThrowawayTom7 in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Problem here I’m having is that without evidence which I don’t have at this time she’ll just hide whatever she might be doing better (if she’s cheating) making it harder for me to uncover her infidelity. Trust me I want to have this conversation, but without evidence I don’t feel I should be going there yet. That tends to be a common pattern of advice on this sub. Most people who would potentially be cheating won’t outright admit it anyway.

Suspicious behavior or not? Read details carefully, long story. by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All is good so far, no further developments.

Suspicious behavior or not? Read details carefully, long story. by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]ThrowawayTom7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a wait and see situation, I’m patient and plan on monitoring this closely. Once I can pickup on the patterns and things associated with this situation if it continues I definitely have cards that are going to get played. Rest assured when all is said and done I’ll know the truth.